I'm talking like between different generations so maybe 20+ years difference. Is it weird to be 20 dating someone who is 40 and so on?

Maybe I'm just caught up in numbers because of course different ages can have different life experiences or be mature/immature but if someone's old enough to be my father/grandfather then I find it a bit creepy
Or am I too judgemental?

In my opinion, yeah. But if they're happy, then it's whatever.

I could never date someone 20 years older. My mom is 20 years older than me, so that would be weird

My boyfriend is 29 years older than me and he is actually super hot. He is the first guy who actually pays attention to me and has helped me when I was homeless. I've dated guys my age and it's not the same. They are dramatic, cheaters and don't value you. This relationship I have with him is the best one I've been.

I could only date someone 20 years older than me until they've become so old that they need to be in a retirement home.

Then I would say no. If I'm 30 and they are 50, ok..once they hit 55/60 I'm done.

no. if i fall in love w/ a 60 year old, nobody can stop me.

20 years is the maximum age gap for me. I don't think its creepy as long as both people are 18.

It shouldn't be frowned upon if two legal consenting adults happen to enjoy each other's company.

Yes, they're uncomfortable to look at in public.

ifits over a certain age then yes. like if its an age ga of more then 15 ish years then yes. BUT! love is love and it shouldn't be all about age tbh

They're weird if you think too much about it/focus only on the ages (and start doing math, when x was # years old, y was #), but if it works for a couple then it works and shouldn't matter.

People who only date people half their age begin to be creepy though.

No, if that's what the person likes/wants then so be it.
I don't mind dating older guys personally.

I don't mind it in and of itself.

I doubt I would ever date someone more than 10 years younger or older than myself though, because the age gap will be VERY pronounced when you are old.

I think it depends on the age group. An 18 year old dating a 40 year old is so wrong on so many levels but 37 & 57 doesn't seem as bad.

Only if they are the age my parents were when I was born. My Mom was 40 and my Dad was 47. By that time, all their friends were around that age too, so I was never really exposed to men in their 30s. My Dad's age is the deal-breaker for me. So if the guy is 47 or older, it's a no. So my age limit is 40.

For me it's weird in the sense that I don't understand what they could possibly have in common, what do they talk about

But other than that..nah. I find some older men sexy af but it couldn't go further than sex...

Get them dolla bills girl

Did the age difference ever worry you though? Like idk I feel as though I wouldn't connect with someone so much older. Not that I'm shaming you or anything I'm just curious.

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