I think a boy is flirting with me.he's always touching me,i always catch him staring at me .on the other hand he is very homophobic when others are around (he's very masc...sort of a thug)we love each other's company & im sooo in love with him and i strongly feel that the feeling is mutual but the mixed signals are killing me.i dont know what to do.i cant risk being outed yet .please help.
If you don't want to be outed then don't pursue any guys, gay or straight. That being said, if you aren't out then maybe he just sees you as one of the boys and doesn't have any secret motive behind spending time with you.
Let him come to you, don't try anything in case he is legitimately straight; but if you decide to move forward with his advances you'll be outed eventually, even if he wants to be with you, that kind of stuff always gets out.
If you don't want to be outed then don't pursue any guys, gay or straight. That being said, if you aren't out then maybe he just sees you as one of the boys and doesn't have any secret motive behind spending time with you.
Let him come to you, don't try anything in case he is legitimately straight; but if you decide to move forward with his advances you'll be outed eventually, even if he wants to be with you, that kind of stuff always gets out.
That being said, if you aren't out then maybe he just sees you as one of the boys and doesn't have any secret motive behind spending time with you.
