have you ever unsupported/dragged the lgbt community in order to look str8 in some point of your life?
maybe in front of ppl you havnt come out too yet and they were dragging in front of you?
I remember even before coming out I would always support LGBT ppl in front of family and friends who would drag. I would stick out like a soar thumb but i didnt care. I was like "you will neva know im gay until I want to tell you and I will keep defending. now seeth"
I've never attacked or spoken ill of the LGBT community, but I've never defended it when others did, which could possibly be equally as bad. It's not that I didn't want to speak up, it's just hard to do sometimes. (real life situations)
Edit: due to title change, I want to point out that it's not because I want to seem straight.
Oh the messy things I have done. I'm currently living in Japan but from NZ, and after like 5 months of zero foreign contact these NZ guys came through my town and I hung out with them. I was so desperate for friends and for people to like me that I ended up doing the dumbest thing and barely talking cause I didn't want them to pick up on me being gay via my obvious voice.
So I guess I didn't try to be "straight", I just tried not to be "gay" and alienate myself more than already done so by my race and language in this damn country's outback.
I've never dragged the LGBT community like that but I certainly act straight and I've done quite a few things to "look straight", lots of them on the gym
Oh the messy things I have done. I'm currently living in Japan but from NZ, and after like 5 months of zero foreign contact these NZ guys came through my town and I hung out with them. I was so desperate for friends and for people to like me that I ended up doing the dumbest thing and barely talking cause I didn't want them to pick up on me being gay via my obvious voice.
So I guess I didn't try to be "straight", I just tried not to be "gay" and alienate myself more than already done so by my race and language in this damn country's outback.
omg sis! I want to go to Japan and live there for so many other reasons but now i partly wanna do it for you. we can be as gay as we want 2gether forever .
here are a few things we will do: :banana8: this is you and me playing piggy back ride look---> :melryan:
I don't do things to seem straight, I just do things to not seem gay. Like I deleted my shirtless Marlon Teixeira iPhone wallpaper because my family might see it. But it's so flawless. I can't wait till college when I can have all the gay **** on my phone and computer.