Love is crazy.. if u love someone and he loves u too and show his love its the most amazing thing ever, its when u feel u cant live without this person and he is litterally a part of u. But tbh when u get hurt from some1 u love is more painful than a knife in the back.
actually LOVE doesn't always mean you must be together with the person. For me, LOVE is when you become happy seeing someone you love happy. I love the feeling of loving that person i love and LOVE is wishing and praying the best for the person you love
like Julia Roberts said, "you know it's love when all you want is that person to be happy, even you're not a part of their happiness."
Love to me is a feeling of exhilaration, it's fulfilling and completes you. But it is only ever real, if the person makes has an impact on you emotionally and has you questioning choices that you wouldn't usually question.
I've actually never been in love but I'd imagine it would be just being completely and 100% comfortable around each other. No awkward silences. No feeling insecure if they touched you anywhere you felt self-conscious about. You would never even want to be spending every second of your free time together because you just would be. And despite having comfortable silences, the conversations you would have would be amazing, and would be about anything and everything.
And most importantly you would just be totally 100% yourself around each other. I've had two ex-boyfriends and each relationship only lasted 4-5 months, and in hindsight I wouldn't even call them relationships. I would just say "we were seeing each other" because I never felt like I was truly being myself around them. I was being this edited version of myself and would say the things I thought I should say or do the things I thought I should do. Your first relationships are all going to be awkward af in hindsight. Very rarely will it be true love. You just feel this pressure that it's time to go find love, and you should never go looking for love. If you do, it's fake from the very beginning and you're fighting to turn it into something. It should be natural and incidental, or friends first, or the chemistry when you first meet should be crazy.
I've actually never been in love but I'd imagine it would be just being completely and 100% comfortable around each other. No awkward silences. No feeling insecure if they touched you anywhere you felt self-conscious about. You would never even want to be spending every second of your free time together because you just would be. And despite having comfortable silences, the conversations you would have would be amazing, and would be about anything and everything.
And most importantly you would just be totally 100% yourself around each other. I've had two ex-boyfriends and each relationship only lasted 4-5 months, and in hindsight I wouldn't even call them relationships. I would just say "we were seeing each other" because I never felt like I was truly being myself around them. I was being this edited version of myself and would say the things I thought I should say or do the things I thought I should do. Your first relationships are all going to be awkward af in hindsight. Very rarely will it be true love. You just feel this pressure that it's time to go find love, and you should never go looking for love. If you do, it's fake from the very beginning and you're fighting to turn it into something. It should be natural and incidental, or friends first, or the chemistry when you first meet should be crazy.
Love is finding a person who is your safe haven. Love is finding a flawed person but they couldn't be more perfect to you. Love is feeling somebody else's emotions, the good and the bad, because you're so close to them that you feel that you are actually connected to them, so everything they're going through, you go through as well. Love is being willing to deal with another person's issues, no matter how negative or bleak, because you just cannot imagine ever leaving them, and you'd rather have them when they're unhappy then not have them at all.
Love is finding a person who is your safe haven. Love is finding a flawed person but they couldn't be more perfect to you. Love is feeling somebody else's emotions, the good and the bad, because you're so close to them that you feel that you are actually connected to them, so everything they're going through, you go through as well. Love is being willing to deal with another person's issues, no matter how negative or bleak, because you just cannot imagine ever leaving them, and you'd rather have them when they're unhappy then not have them at all.
