If you like dressing oppositely of what she is describing, and you like it, go for it.
But stop expecting everyone else to do the same cause it's just uncomfortable.
Ummm if that makes her feel better I guess
Personally I like dressing well. I love fashion not because i'm gay because its almost a form of art. You dress well, you look good, you feel better.
"Dressing well is a form of good manners" as some fashion designer says (forgot if its Chanel or Karl Lagerfeld nnn )