So, my question is how do you find true love with an emphasis on how you look vs your personality.

Should you make sure you look your absolute best now and THEN date and eventually find someone you'll spend the rest of your life with? I mean, cause a lot of people say physical attraction is the beginning of love.

Or should you just work on getting a total physical make over AFTER you've found that person who fell in love with your personality? (Which let's face it, happens only for some very lucky people out there)


So, do you want to go through a total physical makeover now and THEN find love or work on making yourself more beautiful AFTER you've found that special someone?


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I haven't voted myself since I'm really confused about this. If you were already beautiful when he fell in love with you, doesn't that sort of make you wonder if he'd still love you if you weren't the hot siren you were when you met?

I can't really say I should just wait for someone to fall for my personality either since there are so many people out there saying love begins with physical attraction.

So, what?

Beauty.
Only uglees will vote for personality!

Sis...

That's not the point.

Well technically beauty will always be flaunted first, since they see it before your personality. Unless you were like pen pals or something.

And if you get a complete makeover after you fall in love someone, they might not like what they see and it may even change your personality.

Edit: The title is confusing me and I just woke up so let me just edit this later in the day

LOL sis! 's okay. Your answer was pretty good.

I get your point, yeah, I guess I assumed a guy would always love a makeover or whatever. And the pen pal stuff

True.
But most of them don't last long coz of their horrid personality. So, personality >>>>

Of course, you still have to make yourself presentable, you nasty ho.

Off-topic: Internet decided to be a troll tonight...

Both tbh,can't date someone with a **** personality but can't date trolls either

True

But still, you can make someone STAY with your personality, but is that enough to make them fall in love with you?

That's what I'm confused with. Cause ultimately, it brings home the point that PERSONALITY comes second to BEAUTY cause once you lure them in with your physical appearance, that's just when you'll need your personality to KEEP them.

Right? From their perspective, tho, like would they date someone with a beautiful personality with a not so pretty shell or would they prefer someone who's beautiful AND has a great personality?


OBVSLY, they'll choose the second. Which would beg the question; Did he fall for my appearance or my personality?

This.

However, if you find them attractive and fall for their personality, they'll become beautiful to you by default.

1. Beauty hooks them
2. Personality reels them in
3. Chemistry catches them

Simples

You should flaunt your personality, if they can't stand your personality, there's no future. At least with a good personality, you'll be more happier, than be with someone who's just a pretty face who treats you like and doesn't love or respect you.