Yeah, bitch, you did "wake up like dis"... but it isn't "flawless". Truth is, we all have flaws and for that reason alone we're supposed to love a person unconditionally. Is that **** logical though? Is love not supposed to have limitations?

I mean you see Christian couples who stay in their marriages forever, unhappy, miserable, but feel like that's their only option because they made a vow before God to love that person unconditionally as God loved you unconditionally. Logical?

I have no problem giving my heart to a person, but I live by the "Golden Rule" more than anything. Love's not unconditional. The second this ***** cheats on me is the second we are no longer and his car will get keyed. Are we really supposed to subject ourselves to pain and unhappiness by settling for love?

So I come to you on this Valentine's Day "holiday", a holiday about celebrating love for one another, to ask your opinion about what is love and how much of yourself do you submit to it? Can you, rationally, love a person unconditionally?

Originally posted by KillingYourCareer Unconditional love doesn't have to last forever though

By definition, no, unconditional is not the same as eternal. However, people usually stop loving people based on "conditions" and mistakes; if the love was truly unconditional, then it wouldn't stop.

I think unconditional love is possible. However, it has to be mutual; the two consenting parties must feel the exact same way for each other. If my girlfriend goes and cheats on me, it's clear that she didn't love me unconditionally. Consequently, her behavior would make me not love her unconditionally.

Originally posted by CBXC By definition, no, unconditional is not the same as eternal. However, people usually stop loving people based on "conditions" and mistakes; if the love was truly unconditional, then it wouldn't stop. I think unconditional love is possible. However, it has to be mutual; the two consenting parties must feel the exact same way for each other. If my girlfriend goes and cheats on me, it's clear that she didn't love me unconditionally. Consequently, her behavior would make me not love her unconditionally.

Originally posted by KB. I mean... I guess I see what you're saying, but, technically, it's a condition if you're only going to love that person as long as the feeling's mutual.