Quote:
Originally posted by Sir. Will
Pandora, but even so, although you could not say this in a non-harsh way: the child WOULD be better off with Madonna. Africa is AIDS stricken and it's sad that if this WERE to be true, that the child would have to go back to his father after living a nice life with Madonna. Of course, Madonna would be able to adopt another child, but imagine how ****** it would feel to have to give up her "adopted" child. You can't really win in this situation. It's unfair. 
|
To Will and to a lesser extent Mr. Hollywood (the last sentence of your post):
Even though a child may be better off with someone else, if they are ok, well cared for and supported by the biological/legal guardian, no one else has the right to take them away unless the guardian consents and then it is determined for temporary or permanent. By the argument 'they would be better off' we can say that we'd all have been better off with richer parents growing up, even if we were wealthy already there's always generally someone wealthier. Does that mean that children from poor or very poor famillies should all be given away without mutual informed consent or given away at all if the situation is actually workable? If the child hadn't been cared for and/or couldn't be supported then it is a different matter.
If the situion had been misrepresented, Madonna's feelings would have been secondary to the biological fathers because it would be a case of his child being kidnapped/stolen through deception. As for the nice life, not being incredibly wealthy does not mean a person or in this case a child can not or wont have a nice life or childhood.
I'm not going to say much about the Africa argument you used because unfortunately it is misinformed. Africa is a huge continent and different parts of it in comparison to each other can really highlight that.