i have a friend who is reall funny,party animal and we are like best friends , he has a girlfriend [who barely see her] but the thing is that, last thursday , we were in a party @ the uniersity, so when the party was over , we walk away so we found this kid who we meet at the party, i need it to be at home before 2 am so i didn't go with them to the after party, but something was like no right, in some way i feel like jealous from this kid because he was going to party with him and it is not the first time, last saturday, he didnt call me to going out , so i did was out with other friends, but the tought that maybe he was gettin in some other place and i wasn't there piss me the hell off, at sunday when he call me tellin me that he was working all sat , so he was too tyred thats why he coulnd't go out i found myself like good, its sound weird , but i prefer that he get fun wether for his girlfriend, a girl or I... but no other man

i feel weird about it

Maybe you're in love with him?

If you are worring that you sound gay...you don't. The only problem that I see is that you've come close enough to your best friend, so that you guys are like brothers and naturally, sometimes, you feel jealous that your brother would rather hang out with somebody else, rather than you. You're annoyed is all is...don't worry about it. I kinda felt that way about my best friend as well, but erm...not quite as emotional. ;p

Conclusion: Basically, just remember that if you guys are really are best friends, then you don't really have to worry...unless of couse you are doubting that as well (as I sometimes do, but there is no unawkward way of asking?). It seems to me that you should spend less time wondering where he has gone off to at a party and worry more on meeting some new girls...^ _ ^

I'll explain it to you in psychological way. I hope you don't get more confused!


That's normal. He's your male friend and it's normal that you get jealous because he's going to have fun with other male friends (LIKE YOU). And you want to be in their place ,because you guys are supposed to have the same amount of fun.So you feel good when you make sure that he didn't have that fun time with them. Evil but It's human nature.

But you don't feel jealous when he is with a girl, becuase, well, the other guys aren't sharing the fun that you could have.

For your future "weird feelings":

If you think you get jealous because he's with a girl , and you feel like you want to have fun with a girl like he does. That's Normal.

If you think you get jealous because he's with a girl ,and YOU wanna spend the time with HIM. Then you're back to G-A-Y.

Don't worry M.a.r.c. False alarm LOL

but if not

anyway... i hopr this feelin finish soon... or i'll need alcohol terapy

I agree with Jason. (Excellent job bud.) Hard to believe it or not, jealousy(envy) between guys/bros occurs just as it does between girlfriends/sisters. I myself have been in similar situations such as the one you described; twice in your position, and once in your best friend's position. How I solved my situation (while being in your role the 2nd time) was basically just acccepting/getting to know the third friend. Maybe he's not that bad of a guy to be around with? (Who knows? You could someday prefer him over your best friend.)----But, If you truely don't like/don't want to be around with the new person/he's against you more than Reject is with the movie Crash /or its just not working out~And its truely eating you~, well...that's when it gets and feels awkward. And the only reasoned way I've found (In your similar situation the first time) is to immediately deal with that weird feeling by just talking w/ your best friend about the problem.(But please, not in public.) How it'll turn out in your case? I sure don't know, but its a great test of a friendship. When I took that approach, it was a better choice than leaving the feeling bottled up.~ Because if I left that feeling in an empty patronizing bottle of Budweiser, I would've had a terrible time w/ my friends, and it would've gotten in the way of all the great/fun times we had together later on in life. (And all the stuff we now have planned in about 2 weeks, when college is back in sessin. ) Basically, that grudge would've been more negatively ahold of me than the one Sarah Michelle Geller is going to get in her next movie. (Bad, ironic, barely-helpful, jovial pun? I know. ) Having that feeling (and yes certain women along with certain gay men, we do have them.) probably would've killed me in more ways than one.
Anyways, I have nothing more to add onto all this.
Keep Cool.

Sorry it took me so long to reply, I watch TV while making my posts.

I think it is wrong. You should lighten up and meet some other people.

...Then again, after reading this line, I'm assuming you were under some alcohol (excuse me if you were not) while making this post.

Good point.

I say make him jealous by dating other guys..............errrrrr hanging........................out...........with. ..........other................guys.

marc youre gay... its ok so is kelly clarkson!

Hahahaha Marc if it's not a false alarm you should already know. It is not possible to be gay and like only one person. Did u ever liked anyone else? (a man of course). If not! u already know the answer

no liyoh ! after watchin u with the cat i really want to hit U...just kiddin' :boobs:
so gay people are known cause their ****ness? ... anyway i haven't seen him since a week , but i know that he has been workin' as a donkey [latin xpression] so i haven't in contact with him, anyway if i like him in a sexual wy he is not that bad lookin'

LOL.

And about the ****ness of course not. but i mean if you're straight you're not gonna like or feel attracted to just 1 girl. That's why i said it

damn... so i am asexual

btw i'm not that drunk

well now, like adult people that we are, i'm not feelin' like talkin with him about this cause he is gonna be like WTF but i think that he suspects cause all the times that we did not hung out he tell me where he was and what he was doing...weirdo so i guess i'll leavee this feelin' out of my system as soon i enter to college , at that moment i'll e more worry about robots than girls or boys

marc just come out already... its ok to be a ***!!

theres so many cool **** like....... ummm..... david hasselhoff and more coming soon i have to research on this

You used to be soo funny, emphasis on USED

meh, just talk to your friend. It's not that hard. Whenever I get tired of hanging out with someone, I usually don't make anymore "out of the way" (understand wut that means?) contact with them. It seems that they usually appreciate you more that way anyways. For example, the girl I was "seeing" and my best friend was annoying the hell out of me before I disappeared off to Atlanta for the last two weeks of summer and when I came back, I was actually wanted (although, one thought I was terribly mad at them...though it's just nice to have some alone time from being with the same people all the time...perhaps your friend has simply hung out with you too much?). I usually don't think too much into these types of things, but now that you've got me doing so, I don't really see wut the problem is.