Seriously, I just don't understand. I'm probably stereotyping, but 96% of the gay guys I have met are so clicky. They have their little groups and occasionally let others in. They often date each other too - but yet when you join their group (they will go out of their way to make your life miserable, if you do something wrong). I can never meet someone new in a gay club without them evidently knowing one of these bitches - and then they talk **** about me. I was in there group - until I was completely axed - because one of them asked me out and I asked if we could keep it to friends. They have virtually ruined every gay relationship I've had since then.

Case in point - I met a new guy who had just come here. We got along well - had a couple of dates. Everything was perfect. Then he suddenly met these guys - and without us ever meeting again he now ignores me completely. They constantly take pics with him and rub it in my face.

And what the **** is up with fake hugs? Don't hug me if you don't actually like me. They always ****ing hug me, yet they treat me like ****. Over it.

I'm not gay but this is just plain ignorant. In before the lock

Why are Kelly stans always so ****ing ignorant?

Some of them are just insecure

The gays that I know are so obnoxious!

This is an ignorant thread though. Clearly there are lots of rational , and kind members here

You know the topic is going to suck when the second sentence is " I'm probably stereotyping".... You are stereotyping. So why post?

I'm so sorry some are just very hurt

I wish I could argue against this and say it was all stereotyping, but I can't.

let it all out sis
there's always rotten apples in the bunch, that's for sure
sometimes it's best to be one your own and eventually you'll find decent gays

I've never been accused of that and the guy I'm messing with isn't bitchy.

You must be interacting with some straight up queens.

How is this ignorant? I'm gay and said I'm probably stereotyping. But I've never had this problem with girls - they are NO WHERE NEAR as bitchy as the average gay guy.

Not that I see any truth in your statement but if it were true I'd put it down to being a psychological defense mechanism

It's a defense mechanism.

Maybe you should change the title to something like "Why Are a lot of Gays Bitchy?". I understand your point, but other people will probably find the title offensive.

Biggest lie ever told. In fact, you're no better for telling blatant lies and just garnering more hate against them. I've seen to many ugly and vindictive masculine gay guys to fall for that.

Good idea


But seriously you guys must of experienced these fake hugs? I know people who hate me, but they still smile in front of their friends, hug me, then bitch a few secs later. Pisses me off.

I know not of this bitchy-ness you speak of.