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Heartbreaking suicide note left by father found dead 18 mont
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Heartbreaking suicide note left by father found dead 18 months after daughter died from allergic reaction to nuts in a curry
A father who struggled to come to terms with the loss of his daughter was found dead 18 months after her passing, with a note saying he needed to be with his princess, an inquest heard.
Paul Dyer, 42, never accepted the death of his 13-year-old daughter Molly, who died from a severe allergic reaction to nuts from eating a curry in August 2010.
Mr Dyer was found by staff at the Premier Inn in Prestwich, Bury, in March this year with a note which read: ‘I love you all but I need to be with my princess, love Paul.’
Molly, from Whitefield, Bury, died after going into anaphylactic shock and suffering an asthma attack as a result of eating a chicken tikka masala from a local takeaway.
Her devastated father, a pharmaceutical manager, sat beside her grave almost every day after she died, Rochdale Coroner’s Court heard.
Mr Dyer was found in the hotel room with prescription drugs, alcohol, and a series of notes to family members, including the apology.
Photographs of Molly were also found in the room, the inquest was told.
His body was found by a housekeeper who saw a note pinned to a chair which read: ‘Please be careful with me. I have just killed myself. Sorry you have found me like this.’
His brother, Darren Dyer, told the inquest that Paul had a chair positioned at Molly’s graveside.
Darren, from Eccles, Salford, said: ‘He always put Molly first, no matter what.
‘Molly’s death had a devastating effect on all our lives. Paul never, never came to terms with her death. When Molly died, Paul died with her to be honest.’
Mr Dyer said his brother changed after her death and added: ‘He absolutely worshipped and adored his daughter. After her funeral he spent almost every day at her grave. He had a chair there whether it was raining or sunshine. He spent hours there.’
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Never underestimate the power of grief. RIP. 
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oh come on..
