The advertisers on ATRL demand that we have to not swear, not talk about sex or drugs, not spread download links to songs let alone talk about illegal downloading, not have suggestive avatars. etc. and they also encourage censorship, wouldn't be surprised if a mod felt obligated to close this.
No it's not ruining the site. It's an agreement. If members didn't go so over the top with EVERYTHING, it wouldn't be a problem. Ads keep this site running. Joe foots the bill in addition to the adds. Unless you wanna pony up the money to keep the site running, I suggest you just deal with the rules.