Hello,

I dont know if this is a problem or not, but I am constanly tired of being around too many people. I am the type of person that appreciate solitude and I am very spiritual person. I read a lot. If my friends ask me to come out I usually say no and come up with an excuse. Its not that I dont like them, I just want time for myself. I do go out with them too. Its very draining to be around people. People are complaining, even my parents and they ask me why I dont go out. Do any of you experienced it?

no everybody loves me

i'm like you

most people like me but a few people dislike me because i'm shy, just too "goody" or quiet you're not going to be liked by everyone anyways, even if you try

This should be in the Blog section sis

Sounds like me

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This sounds like it doesn't belong on this forum.

Yes. I understand. @ the same time I feel like it might be me though. When someone asks me to come out i do the same thing I either say no or come up with an excuse. I just think I'm selfish and I want to do things because I want too. Not because someone wants me to come out or go somewhere.

I know exactly what you're talking about minus spirituality.

Anyway, the people you know will get used to it. My friend's have. If they keep questioning you about it, it may be time to find new friends. People see being an introvert/loner as a bad thing, but it's not. You actually have a lot more freedom to do what you want because you're not attached. I'd rather do things by myself than with my friends most times.

Hopefully your friends come to understand you.

I've become like that I prefer being alone or with really close friends.

LOL, sorry. This should maybe be on the blog section.

I am glad there are people who can relate to me. I am just tired of this. Its not my fault I cant be around people. Its not that I dont like it, its just that its extremly draining and I like to live in solitude. Not all the time, but for the most time. Reading, thinking, quiet time. Its paradise for me. Inner peace is more important for me.

LOL, creepy? I am just like you, but I need more quite time for myself.

youre just like me

And you're a vortex of narrow-mindedness.

That is very true. I am not so attached to other people that much and I dont fall easily for peer pressure. And thanks to my "personality" that I am able to get things done much more faster, which is good.

I researched "introvert" which I have never heard of before, and I am definitivly an introvert.

I know exactly what you mean. Especially with the parents part. My parents always asking why I don't go out etc.. Being around people too long gets irritating for me and then I begin to act bitchy.

Good for you it's nice to have alone time and if it makes u feel better it's safer to be home ur less likely to get hurt and spend unnecessary money

“It's better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you're not. It's a sign of your worth sometimes, if you're hated by the right people.” - Bette Davis

I'm the exact same way. I don't know why it's wrong for people to enjoy their own company more than others, if you can't love yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else??