So for all us gay dudes on here, what does the gay community think of you. Are you popular? Are you not? Are you one of those gays that everyone picks on and shuns. Are you one that everyone thinks is a bitch and is nice to your face but talk **** behind your back?

What does the gay community think of you?

I'm a messy gay.

Does messy = ****ty?

Uh

I don't feel like the entire gay community has reached a consensus on me as an individual.

I meant that my personality is messy. I'm still a virgin.

Oh!

Do you know any gay people in real life? How old are you?

The "gay community" is simply gay people...it's not some entity that views people a certain way. I'm sure every gay person I know in my life has a particular opinion on me. As for the groups of gay friends I know, I think they like me but I'm not too close with them.

Exactly. Asking how the gay community feels about someone kind of implies that all gay people are going to feel the same about them, which is kind of ridiculous to me.

But I guess the gay guys I meet generally like me because I'm cute and funny.

This!

What kinda late night drunken question?

I'm the gay that everyone shuns. None of the other gays really hang with me like that nor am I on every gay guys friend list on facebook.

I'm only 19, so I don't have that much experience.

Everyone I met thinks I'm cute and young-looking (even though straight people do to)

Gay community...? If we're talking about the gay people in the area I live in who knows.

Right? The only things I can think of are what straight people think of me too.

Except that I'm cute and not feminine.

What kind of question?

I'm 19, and i'm really experienced in the gay scene (not sexually though), what does that make me ?

All my gay friends think i'm a feeling-less egocentric monster, who plays hard to get, but i'm not

!!!!!!!!!!

How can one gay be popular in the gay community without being a celebrity?

And I don't know ever single gay in the gay community, so I don't know.

Well I've only met two. One doesn't even know he's gay and the other is bisexual

I only have 5 gay male friends, the rest are straight . The rest are straight. Although all of the gay people I have met love me I guess. Well mostly everyone loves me tbh, and not in a cocky way, honestly So yea

I mainly stay away from the gay 'scene' where I live. Because I've heard nothing but bad things about the people in it. I have one or two gay guys I would call my friends. But most of my friends are straight.