I've been doing a lot of dating recently and things have definitely come up that are just deal breakers. It's possible that I'm just being shallow, but here are some deal breakers for me:

1. Bad hygiene. This mostly relates to teeth. I cannot stand bad oral hygiene. BRUSH YOUR TEETH. Take care of them. Yellow teeth bug me as well. Take preventative measures or get some whitestrips.

2. Bad kissers. This one isn't so much of a deal breaker as people can be taught.. but some are lost causes. I went on a date with a guy once and when we kissed he literally reminded me of a lizard. Fast, random insertions of the tongue into my mouth and right back out again. That was our first and last kiss.

3. Dishonesty. If I sense that you're lying or if I catch you in a lie, I'm done with you.


So what are some of yours? You can list pet peeves, too. I have many of those so I didn't start typing them as I'll be here all night.



No wonder I'm single.

I agree with everything you said.

1. If a bastard talks about his self the whole time, I'm leaving (well, not right then and there...). I had one date like that and I was so ****ing annoyed. I'm glad he was quiet during the movie.

2. Inappropriate contact. I can't stand when guys get too comfortable after only an hour. Hugging, holding hands and all of that is cool, but keep your hands above the belt.

3. Wandering eyes. I can't stand when a guy is looking at other guys while he's with me and has the balls to say he'd hit or some other salacious mess. Like, you really couldn't keep that to yourself for three hours?

I agree with you. Except maybe bad kissing. They can be taught

THIS!!! I forgot about that. Yes, I had a similar experience recently. I was walking with a guy I was on a date with and he was showing me around his town center. We passed a Starbucks and he was like "oh there's where I get coffee every morning.. there's a really cute barista in there." I was like Really?! I thought it was just me or something but I thought it was totally not cool.

1. Rudeness - I can't date a person who is rude -- it's just the way it is.
2. Musty Smelling Bitch ... bitch you just CANNOT smell, if you're gonna be with moi.
3. Conceited - I think you should definitely have confidence, but there's a fine line right there.

And I love it when a guy's nervous, I think it's cute.