So... today I got drunk, on purpose, because I'm in love with this guy, who is always texting me, always when drunk holding my hand, kissing my cheek, calling me baby, telling me he likes me, but he's "straight", I don't know. Today I ****ing decided to show my true feelings and I just told him I liked him, and that I was confused because he was giving me mixed signals, he totally ignored me and didn't say anything... I feel like ****ing crying, he's also my best friend and I feel like I ruined our relationship. What's sad is I don't have a shoulder to cry on.
Oh honey don't be sad, the worst thing you can do is not talk to him and let the distance between you grow.
I had a similar experience in the past, he was also gay and we had become very good friends. I asked him out and he rejected me, but I quickly talked to him after that and we went shopping together the next weekend, we got over it and now we're friends just like nothing happened.
But he's probably confused too, and still doesn't know his real feelings for you.
You got one thing for certain, your relationship will never be the same: for good (if he exposes himself and says he loves you) or for bad (that he was never into you).
If he's really doing all that stuff and then telling the world that he's straight, he isn't worth a SECOND more of your time. Take it from me.
Closet cases are life-sucking sicknesses but in the end they'll be the miserable 50-year-old married men dreaming about the boy they knew in high school.
Oh honey don't be sad, the worst thing you can do is not talk to him and let the distance between you grow.
I had a similar experience in the past, he was also gay and we had become very good friends. I asked him out and he rejected me, but I quickly talked to him after that and we went shopping together the next weekend, we got over it and now we're friends just like nothing happened.
The problem is he's "straight" aparently... I can't do anything about it.
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Originally posted by Bentley
He's not straight.
That's what I thought...
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Originally posted by ifyouseekLEM
Let him run out and play his little games -- but he knows where home is.
Let him have his time to breathe and think....but I assure you, he'll be back.
Yeah... he treats me like his boyfriend ALL the time, but I think he's too scared to admit it...
Thanks everyone, I know this should be on blogs, but nobody cares about those, so while this is moved there, I want to be cheered up
If he's really doing all that stuff and then telling the world that he's straight, he isn't worth a SECOND more of your time. Take it from me.
Closet cases are life-sucking sicknesses but in the end they'll be the miserable 50-year-old married men dreaming about the boy they knew in high school.
Alright, at least now I can tell him to give me some time to get over him, because I saw him daily and I didn't have space to breathe. I feel kind of relieved at the same time. I just hope he's happy, too, in the end...
Unrequited love, it happens to a lot of people. Can you accept that this person simply isn't into you romantically? We're all victims of being brainwashed by romantic fiction to believe that enough determination will make that person changed their perception of how they feel. Sometimes knowing when to give up is the first step to real success. The fact is, you may be the best looking, wittiest, brightest, most fun person in the world, and they still may not like you the way you like them.
Unrequited love, it happens to a lot of people. Can you accept that this person simply isn't into you romantically? We're all victims of being brainwashed by romantic fiction to believe that enough determination will make that person changed their perception of how they feel. Sometimes knowing when to give up is the first step to real success. The fact is, you may be the best looking, wittiest, brightest, most fun person in the world, and they still may not like you the way you like them.
Yeah, I understand. I can feel closure for the first time in two years... Thanks for the honesty.
