This is very sad. If you are gay and have lived the same life has him, or per say, gone through what he has gone through, you will cry/tear up. I watched this and couldn't help but think, this is what I went through and his suicide talk made me want to cry. There is so much emotion in this video and it needs to be shown to everyone who does think being gay is a choice.

Because it's not.

I literally am tearing up, wanting to cry now. So much emotion in his voice, in his personal story, in his message.

Bring Kleenex. Beware.

I think that almost every gay has been there.

Everyone has had thoughts of killing himself.

But in the end its not about family, or friends, or getting hard if a girl shows u her pu**y....

Its about AUTOACCEPTANCE.....

Being gay is a feeling.

Ive been though that too... and Ive been high and low.

But no matter what..... Being gay is who you are, and even if no one else understood u need to be able to think about it and get a smile on your face.

Nothing to do with religion, sin, ethic, inmorality... JUST FEELING.

So if u are a gay man and u are having hard times accepting who u are... think that the feelings wont go away. Its not a choice.... and not only that.... THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THE FEELINGS YOU HAVE.

Love urself and love whoever u feel like loving. NEVA HOLD BACK

This video reminds my story
This is very sad
PS: he is cute (L)

I subscribed this thread

very sad story, You are Born who you are, baby i was born this way!!!!

The whole debate always seemed stupid to me anyway, I mean if it isn't a choice, then it's not a choice. but if it is a choice, so what? not effecting you is it? then shut up.

(haven't watched the vid yet)

No. You got it wrong. The whole debate is there because the media puts so much emphasis on it being a choice, which ties it into it being something sinful or something to be ashamed about.

When gays struggle with their sexuality and everyone says "It's a choice!!! You choose that way." Gay struggle with this insecurity within themselves and go through an on-going battle, because of how if it really was a choice, shouldn't they be easily to cover up their same sex attraction and be straight? Live a the "normal" life and not pursue the so called "sinful" lifestyle?

That's why teens kill themselves because they shove it in their face saying it's a choice and teenagers struggle with the comprehension of if it really is a choice, why can't I change it? So they conclude, they are a mistake and kill themselves.

But to your extent, I agree, who cares if it's a choice or not. We need to quit generalize gay community and accept them for who they were meant to be. Don't want to get into the debate of religion, but in the end, it ties up with religion. If religion was never introduced to us, this wouldn't even be a problem in our society, but here we are...

Im so sick of how many times people have asked this. Why would you wanna deal with the hatred of society if it was a choice? Why can't a straight man see that?

This got through my heart

Well damn...