Even if you take feminism out of the entire equation, what the guy did was really dumb and rude on all fronts and there's really no defending his actions. You can't really get mad at her for complaining about that.
I feel bad for these guys in the comments that talk about "omg, such a ****. she puts her body out there so the stupid ***** deserves it." Those are the type of people who probably jacked off to it anyway and can't get any *****.