NOTE: This is a NSFW discussion. Hope it is allowed. If not, freely close this.
I ask because I believe that my ex boyfriend was gradually desensitized by it and his change in behavior was one of the reasons we broke up. He used to be very vanilla in his approach to intercourse; passionate yet considerate. The concept of anal sex had never been brought up, talked about, or considered. But then over the course of several months, I noticed that his **** viewing preference started changing. He started watching videos that included that type of intercourse, and those videos usually included much rougher attitude towards the partner. Well anyway, after those couple of months, he started to subtly hint at his desire to try it out. Of course I refused every time he suggested it verbally or physically. And we remained vanilla...but he became much more dominant, aggressive, and demanding. I felt the passion and love fade away through his actions. There was less kissing, caressing, and consideration. I began to legitimately feel like a sex toy to him. It was the most dehumanizing feeling. Did it ever cross my mind to try it? Yes, and I would've given in at some point. But recognizing that I was not enough anymore and that the whole anal concept was the only thing that would've truly pleased him made me feel so small.
Does põrn desensitize regular viewers? Have you been desensitized or know someone who has?
