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Discussion: part two: falling in love w. best friend
Member Since: 8/7/2015
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part two: falling in love w. best friend
following the events of this thread, I've since told him that I loved him and all the poems I've wrote were about him. I had his best friend tell him that I loved him and his best friend told me what I was expecting to hear....
"He's straight."
I knew this would happen, so I reacted properly by telling him through text that "I will never talk to you again because whenever I see you, I'm reminded of all the times we've spent together and it hurts."
He just said, "sorry."
I plan on never acknowledging his existence, despite the fact that we have a gravity cars competition to perform and we hang with the same intercircle group of friends. Despite being his best friend, I really have no use for him since he rejected me(yes I know I'm being petty but that's just me!)
Should I stay on this route until graduation where I don't have to see him ever again? We only have one more year of school tbh
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Love is like a plant. If you nuture it, it grows.
If you don't pay it attention and care,it withers away.
Give yourself some alone time and take up some little activity to divert your mind.
And I'm pretty sure you'll meet someone who'll like you back too someday.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Gurl make him suffer.

It is not your fault that he is heterosexual, itīs HIS fault his heterosexual, tbh.

Make him realise that you are the only best thing that ever happened to him. Everyday, ignore his existance, make him realise that you DONīT need him, he NEEDS you.

Even the air that he and you are breathing, will not exist in your life until he will want to confront you where you will ignore him again and again until he becomes paranoid wants to REALLY confront you.

Then you will need to make him realise that youīre already OVER for him (even though your are not) and smile fakely as you (low-key lie ) that you already have another, hot hetersexual boyfriend who is much better than him, in every step of direction from his heartbeat to his ****.

If he says ok, just smile again and leave. If he wants to start a new again, leave. He he wants to save your friendship, eh just say yes and leave.

If that fails, then I donīt know. Just buy and listen to #Joanne on Spotify or Itunes and move on.

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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Mr. Grey
Gurl make him suffer.

It is not your fault that he is heterosexual, itīs HIS fault his heterosexual, tbh.

Make him realise that you are the only best thing that ever happened to him. Everyday, ignore his existance, make him realise that you DONīT need him, he NEEDS you.

Even the air that he and you are breathing, will not exist in your life until he will want to confront you where you will ignore him again and again until he becomes paranoid wants to REALLY confront you.

Then you will need to make him realise that youīre already OVER for him (even though your are not) and smile fakely as you (low-key lie ) that you already have another, hot hetersexual boyfriend who is much better than him, in every step of direction from his heartbeat to his ****.

If he says ok, just smile again and leave. If he wants to start a new again, leave. He he wants to save your friendship, eh just say yes and leave.

If that fails, then I donīt know. Just buy and listen to #Joanne on Spotify or Itunes and move on.

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even if you're being sarcastic, I actually thought about this
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Member Since: 4/4/2014
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Quote:
Originally posted by Letters From Adi
Love is like a plant. If you nuture it, it grows.
If you don't pay it attention and care,it withers away.
Give yourself some alone time and take up some little activity to divert your mind.
And I'm pretty sure you'll meet someone who'll like you back too someday.
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all my friends have told me this and honestly, i dont see the appeal for me. I wish i could show u some pictures of me but idk. All the guys I've confessed have rejected me
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Member Since: 4/6/2014
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This is so sad
Take some time from him, I think, and find a hobby or something to take your mind off him. In time, maybe you'll move on to someone else. 
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by DancingShoes
This is so sad
Take some time from him, I think, and find a hobby or something to take your mind off him. In time, maybe you'll move on to someone else. 
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i dont feel anything except pettiness because I've been through rejection since I developed feelings for other people. I'm a hopeless romantic at this point. Just imagine, being rejected by 8 guys you liked through highschool.
hearing "I'm sorry" over and over again, and you know it's out of pity.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Quote:
Originally posted by Letters From Adi
Love is like a plant. If you nuture it, it grows.
If you don't pay it attention and care,it withers away.
Give yourself some alone time and take up some little activity to divert your mind.
And I'm pretty sure you'll meet someone who'll like you back too someday.
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love the metaphor and couldn't agree more
recently broke up with my bf who i really liked spending time with and we had tons of fun together, but it got to the point where i knew there was no future, we both wanted very different things, and it started getting more serious (approaching 4-5 months of being "official")
I still felt sad even though I was the one who broke up with him, but it's been about 2 weeks now and since I havent paid it any attention it has started to pass
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Trav
love the metaphor and couldn't agree more
recently broke up with my bf who i really liked spending time with and we had tons of fun together, but it got to the point where i knew there was no future, we both wanted very different things, and it started getting more serious (approaching 4-5 months of being "official")
I still felt sad even though I was the one who broke up with him, but it's been about 2 weeks now and since I havent paid it any attention it has started to pass
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4-5 months is long?  at that point, I would've still been going through the lovey dovey phase
if i ever dated anyone ofc.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Grey
Gurl make him suffer.

It is not your fault that he is heterosexual, itīs HIS fault his heterosexual, tbh.

Make him realise that you are the only best thing that ever happened to him. Everyday, ignore his existance, make him realise that you DONīT need him, he NEEDS you.

Even the air that he and you are breathing, will not exist in your life until he will want to confront you where you will ignore him again and again until he becomes paranoid wants to REALLY confront you.

Then you will need to make him realise that youīre already OVER for him (even though your are not) and smile fakely as you (low-key lie ) that you already have another, hot hetersexual boyfriend who is much better than him, in every step of direction from his heartbeat to his ****.

If he says ok, just smile again and leave. If he wants to start a new again, leave. He he wants to save your friendship, eh just say yes and leave.

If that fails, then I donīt know. Just buy and listen to #Joanne on Spotify or Itunes and move on.

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OMG 
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