This is the same Roommate i had a crush on but not anymore because he's a ****ed up individual so he's been dating this guy in his 30's () for like two years now. Towards the beginning of their relationship. The 30 year old guy cheated on my roommate because my roommate goes to college 2 hours away from the 30 year old guy and they rarely see each other. Saying he has needs and my roommate isn't around to fulfill them.



ANYWAYS. Long story short my roommate forgave him and they tried a open relationship for a while. Oh yeah, my roommate is on grindr too he says he's looking for "friends" chile..... If you're looking for friends why haven''t you told your bf your up there?

Not to mention he talks about how hot guys on campus are and how he wants to hook up with them in a joking way but still. ANYWAYS his 30 year old bf is going away for 3 weeks for his job and they basically worked out a agreement that my roommate can hookup because "he has needs"

MIND YOU. The 30 year old boyfriend CONSTANTLY tells my roommate how he wants to marry him and how they want to be together after college and how my roommates the best thing that's happen to him. How do you go from talking about being married to saying your okay with being in a open relationship? like, do you realize you can't be doing this stuff if you wanna get married. Anyways, he's always asking me for advice on this situation but i've always held my tongue because i don't wanna scalp him, because i believe in loyalty. IMO, it seems like their relationship is VERY dependent on sex. The fact that you have to propose a open relationship because you can't keep your dick in your pants for 3 weeks when not that long ago you were talking about getting married. Like ya'll mother****ers just hooked up last weekend. Atrl what do you think of this messy situation and what advice should i give him. I honestly don't wanna be involved in this ********.

Also he's soooooo inconsistent. he says he likes "people" meaning he doesn't care what race you are or gender. But yet he's only hooked up with White guys and Latinos and that's all he talks too on grindr. He also says he's not into skinny guys and twinks but he's hooking up with one this weekend he's also picky af but yet his boyfriend is this short oompa loompa meets humpty dumpty love child. like you say one thing but you do another

Sounds like you're bitter and you need to mind our own business.

Get on Grindr yourself and find yourself a man instead of worrying about somebody else.

yes, i'm bitter about his mid 30's boyfriend who plays video games all the day. The only reason i know about this **** is because he tells me and ask me for advice.

his boyfriend is this short oompa loompa meets humpty dumpty love child.

honestly I'm starting to understand the older I get. We change over time with every other aspect of our lives, makes sense for the rules of relationships to change too. But not you reacting to your roommate acknowledging hot guys, everyone does that.

As long as they're happy and not hurting anyone, they can do what they want.

Proof right there that you are salty. Mind your business girl. Gay relationships in general are messy so I don't get what you're trying to get at. ***** normal

That's their relationship and they want it to work. Your idea of ideal isn't theirs. Move on.

Don't get bitter, get better.

Everyone who thinks this is normal is crazy. I'm 100% on your side here, monogamy is important especially of they're talking marriage...
Your roommate and his fiancé or wtv are strange, you're not insane.

open relationships are pointless. His relationship is clearly based on sex and the need for love, but the sex part prevails. Tell him to safely **** random guys until he's ready to commit.

This basically sounds like every open relationship story I have heard so far, so yeah.

good for them, here i am single

Girl i'm not. I just want the best for my friend and this relationship is not healthy. And he made it my business because he tells me everything and ask me for advice.

Well just say you dont care
Their problem tbh

Why are you so worried about their lives? You seem bitter, seek help.

Sounds like a hot mess Let him do him, though. He'll likely end up with his heart broken, anyways.

You sound like a profoundly nasty and unhappy human being.