Case 1: "Doctor abuses his patients"

Doctor Hot?

No: " "

Yes: "ABUSE ME DADDY "


Case 2: "Pedophile arrested for molesting a child"

Pedo hot?

No: " "

Yes: "MOLEST ME DADDY "

It's not fine. Even though some people might be turned on if it's someone hot, it's still rape and molesting...

it's really disturbing

i try to wonder what could be going on in someone's life to even joke like that

yes, the double standards of the gays here.

It's ATRL, don't take it too seriously. Literally nobody who posts those type of trollish things here would ever have the balls to act on it irl.

It's actually sort of funny some of the things ATRLers will decide to take the moral high ground on, as if this site was ever some haven of morality. The most recent post in the Blogs for the past 6 months has been "guy wants to hook up with me for cash on grindr", like...

I cringe everytime I see it. Some people here are really self-hating.

Saying stuff like this is 100% wrong. But stating that a criminal is attractive isn't necessarily a bad thing, as long as you understand that this a) doesn't excuse their heinous actions b) doesn't make them a good person.

Are you hot ?
No:
Yes : you are so right daddy atrl sucks

it's honestly really really gross and mods really should start cracking down crazy hard on this behaviour. it should honestly be worth at least 4 WPs. it's disturbing

It's still not cute to be trolling about, I'd say not finding rape hot when the assailant is semi attractive is just being decent. Most would say there is a difference between talking about consensual sex for money or attention seeking creaming over men who are pedos based on their looks.

Well many people have fantasies of someone they find hot taking charge and initiating sexual contact with them.

Cause they'd want it...in theory.

But I guess what most people don't realize is that in fantasies you make yourself feel whatever you want. And you're implicitly consenting because YOU'RE the one propogating the fantasy. While in real life, you're a subject to the physical conditions around you. And even things you wanted in fantasy can be unpleasant if experienced the wrong way. That's probably the most important distinction.

For instance, the doctor example:

In fantasy:

You're fantasizing that he's hot and he whips it out and you're coming out of the anesthesia so you're a little fuzzy, but you get aroused and he gets aroused and everybody has a merry time.

Note: You are consenting to it as you imagine it

In reality:

You come out of the anesthesia, you feel a sharp pain in your mouth from the tooth operation, you're dizzy and also a little naseated. Then suddenly you notice (you're still fuzzy) that the dentist pulls down his pants, he's unshaven and giving off a strong musk. He then goes to put it in your mouth and rubs on the wound and causes pain, plus his skin is salty and you're feeling like you want to throw up.

Note: You are not consenting to it as it unfolds beyond your control. And even if you think he's hot, you may not want to do it right then and there because of how much pain you're in. So you want it to stop.

So yeah. ATRLer's prefer to operate in fantasy mode

it's really gross

OP got a point. They did it with that guy from Glee who was arrested for child ****.

omg you didnt have to describe it that much

My impression is that (most) people on ATRL act messy because mess is expected on ATRL and they're just feeding into that tradition It's all performance and posturing and playing a "role". It's not always in good taste but that's just what I think is going on.

dw, I got like 3 wps once for saying something like this

The important thing is to be able to separate fantasy from reality.

And to sympathize with victims of sexual assault rather than make it about you and the things you fantasize about.

Also evident from that Chainsmokers


"WHO CARES HES STILL HOT!!"

Why do you take it so seriously?

I doubt people on here actually want to be beaten, abused, and molested as long as it's at the hands of a hot guy. They say it for dramatic effect to express their lust.