I feel like sometimes ****-shaming comes with the territory of being monogamous and not necessarily because of religion (many of which we all know strictly promotes a monogamous lifestyle). But I feel like ( & maybe I'm wrong) some monogamous people might want to suppress any polygamous feelings while they're in their committed relationships and do that by demeaning polygamy & painting it with a broad stroke.

We all know by now that a polygamous lifestyle does not necessarily comprise of STDS (if you wrap up), drugs or infidelity, & polygamous people aren't necessarily all emotionless or "broken." So there's no need at all to judge these type of people.

So what's gud ATRLers? Do you think it's hard to avoid ****-shaming when you're monogamous?

I don't know exactly what this is asking? Like I would consider myself the type of person who would be monogamous in a relationship, but I wouldn't shame anyone because they have a highly-active sex life with multiple people. That's their thing.

Now if were asking if ****-shaming and the general dismissal of polygamous relationships are stemming from the same branch, maybe. Either way, people are having sex with multiple people and whether those people are in committed relationships or not, it tends to be looked down upon and seen as "disgusting".

I think it's probably a bit too general of a comparison because most people are monogamous, therefore there will be some sort of correlation. BUT, I do understand the logic because by nature, polyamorous people choose to have more than one partner which is essentially the reason people "****-shame", so it wouldn't make sense for a polyamorous person to do this.

I'm a bit confused... People who are polygamous are not going around ****ing everyone.. They're usually just in a relationship with multiple people... Keeping it within their circle.

--- to answer your question.. no, there is no correlation.