Ι don't have much to contribute to the thread, since I haven't experienced this, but
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Originally posted by Hitori
Can someone offer me advise on how to attract guys who ARE NOT IN THE CLOSET? I might be doing something wrong myself. Please don't hate me. I don't want to be involved with these guys since I have respect for myself, and I know it will not go anywhere.  |
I kind of disagree with this. Sure, getting involved with someone that's in the closet is not the best situation, but it's not as doomed as you're making it out to be. Maybe that person is planning to get out of the closet at some point or maybe, if you develop a relationship with them, they'll find the courage. Or maybe not, but still it's not out of the picture. Not saying you
have to get with closeted guys. Just saying that, if there's a particular closeted guy that you like and have chemistry with, don't reject him just because he's in the closet. Not every closeted guy is a self loathing asshole
