Why do white gays refuse to take ownership of their community's problems when presented with facts? I don't understand how pointing out the immense privilege they all have, and the systemic racism they feed into, can lead to a trigger reaction rather than self-improvement to help other peoples on this planet.

I'm saddened but also curious for an explanation.

Yes, just like every other group of people.

Nobody wants blame or a bad reputation

You're an iPhone. Shouldn't you be telling me?

What the **** is happening

That's a better way of putting it than

see? having a civil discussion is not that hard!

Like I know for a fact out of experience that straight Muslims/brown people don't either. It's just so odd to only get mad at one group for having the exact same (if not exponentially worse) problems.

If a white person would dare to post this about black people they'd be perma-banned in a hearbeat

This false equivalence.

White gays block black gays on Grindr all the time though....

Well, that's because that would be racist.

It's just a "preference," they claim...

No they wouldn't.
There are SEVERAL members here that are point-blank RACIST and they're still here. Explain.

Jesus ****ing Christ. Stop with the generalisation man. Go catch some fresh air. Stop putting people into boxes

This upsets you, but you didn't want the white trash that attacked the Asian boy to go to jail?

Location: UK

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