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News: Gay Teen Sues School After He Couldn’t Bring Boy To Dance
Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Gay Teen Sues School After He Couldn’t Bring Boy To Dance
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Lance Sanderson, 19, asked permission to bring a male date to an upcoming dance during the end of his junior year at Christian Brothers High School (CBHS), an all-boys private school. He was told via email by his principal that he “really struggle[d]” with allowing Sanderson to bring a boy to the dance. When Sanderson posted the email to Twitter, he was reprimanded and told he could no longer be a school photographer, as he had been, even though he was not accused of violating any rules.
The school had no rules against bringing another male to a dance. Their code of conduct still states, “All CBHS students should feel safe, secure and accepted regardless of color, race, background, appearance, popularity, athletic ability, intelligence, personality, sexual orientation, religion or nationality.”
In the days leading up to the dance, the school began to broadcast daily messages over the intercom that students were not allowed to bring boys from other schools as dates.
The lawsuit states that this left Sanderson feeling “bullied by both the school administration and by some of the students.”
“As a private school, CBHS held itself out to be nondiscriminatory with regard to sexual orientation,” Sanderson’s attorney, Manis, told NBC. “In our eyes, it seems very clear those were hollow words…They were not interested in treating [Sanderson] the same as other students.”
He chose not to attend the dance, and CBHS sent him home for a “cooling off” period of indeterminate length. When he returned a week later, he says he felt unwelcome.
“Everyone thought I had been expelled,” Sanderson said. “It was pretty clear that I wasn’t welcome on campus…I was sure it wasn’t going to be good for me to be there for the rest of the year.”
“I was very active at school,” he said. “It was a big part of my life, and it was all of a sudden gone. I was alone 24/7.”
Sanderson and the school worked out an agreement where he would finish his senior year with online classes and at-home study. He received his diploma that spring but did not attend the graduation ceremony.
With his lawsuit, filed Tuesday in Circuit Court, Sanderson is seeking up to $1 million from CBHS on claims including breach of contract, intentional infliction of emotional distress, negligent training and a violation under Title IX of the 1972 Education Amendments.
“We have confirmation that CBHS receives federal funding and also potentially state funding for certain programs at the school,” Howard Manis, one of Sanderson’s lawyers, said. “That makes them responsible for following the letter of the law under Title IX.”
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Member Since: 4/14/2011
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He better win against that hypocritical homophobic school
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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19? Girl...
and it's a Catholic school?
what did he expect?
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Member Since: 3/1/2014
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man, to think my principal went on my city's local tv and said "these kids, they think they're gay but it's a phase" after getting backlash for doing jack **** about homophobic students... she died two years after i graduated tho so whatever
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Member Since: 4/6/2014
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Originally posted by DevonDreams
19? Girl...
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He's a junior sis . . .
Hope he wins.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by DancingShoes
He's a junior sis . . .
Hope he wins.
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19.. and in 11th grade? Wow.
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Member Since: 4/4/2014
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Originally posted by DancingShoes
He's a junior sis . . .
Hope he wins.
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I was like 16 as a junior...19 is kinda old
OT: Hope he wins too 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Sue the **** outta that school
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Member Since: 3/21/2012
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19 and in highschool should be his main focus..
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by DancingShoes
He's a junior sis . . .
Hope he wins.
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You should be in your first year in college at 19
That's ****ed up tho I hope he wins
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Member Since: 4/14/2011
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Some people repeat grades, don't be dense people  Not y'all siding with the school that claims not to discriminate against students based on sexual orientation. If they're going to be prejudiced then they should get rid of that part at least
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Member Since: 5/18/2012
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Originally posted by NewRihannaStan
19 and in highschool should be his main focus..
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Originally posted by katycat737
I was like 16 as a junior...19 is kinda old
OT: Hope he wins too 
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Originally posted by DevonDreams
19.. and in 11th grade? Wow.
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Originally posted by DevonDreams
19? Girl...
and it's a Catholic school?
what did he expect?
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You guys need to read better.
He graduated already. He's 19 now and suing the school for what they did in the past. This could've took place when he was 17 for instance.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Anyway it's a Catholic school.. If homosexuality is against their religion then they shouldn't be forced to do that.
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He should move on with his life
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Originally posted by DevonDreams
Anyway it's a Catholic school.. If homosexuality is against their religion then they shouldn't be forced to do that.
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The article clearly mentioned the school does NOT discriminate against sexual orientation. When both parties agree to the rules, they are joined by a contract. Also if this Catholic school used Federal funds they are subject to federal laws. Meaning either way, he has a legitimate case against them.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Originally posted by Nikolai.
You should be in your first year in college at 19
That's ****ed up tho I hope he wins
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I'm 19 and I'm in my 3 year of uni
Hope he wins too though.
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oh, a catholic school? shocked.
anyways, get your money gurl! 
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Originally posted by Tropez
You guys need to read better.
He graduated already. He's 19 now and suing the school for what they did in the past. This could've took place when he was 17 for instance.
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Reading comprehension is key, people.
Anyway, I'm conflicted about this. On the one hand, he's completely in the right. On the other hand, it was just a dance and it never should have escalated to this. It's clearly caused both him and the school more trouble than it's worth - well, I guess it would be worth it for this kid since he's seeking up to $1 million, but I hate when people sue for that much due to "emotional distress" and what not.
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He has every right to sue. And he better win!
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A million dollars for that.....
I can understand why he's suing, but that seems like an over the top demand to me.
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