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Discussion: How do you not be mean in this situation?
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Discussion: How do you not be mean in this situation?
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Bentley
Member Since: 8/29/2011
Posts: 15,167
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Post #1
How do you not be mean in this situation?
But you basically want to say to someone you want nothing to do with them? Lol
Ignoring them and pretending to have nothing in common is not working.
jamir21
Member Since: 11/13/2011
Posts: 1,022
Post #2
Get a restraining order
Shizuka
Member Since: 2/5/2014
Posts: 3,371
Post #3
Say you feel like you don't have much in common anymore, make it sound like a natural divide and it's best to hang with other people.
ABeyBraith
Member Since: 5/27/2016
Posts: 2,737
Post #4
Why don't you just be honest? Tell them how you feel, it's better than constantly lying and eventually making the situation worse in the long run.
Bentley
Member Since: 8/29/2011
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jamir21
Get a restraining order
The thought has crossed my mind boo, considering this person hasn't known me but 3 weeks.
J a y
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Member Since: 9/14/2010
Posts: 78,921
Post #6
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Bentley
The thought has crossed my mind boo, considering this person hasn't known me but 3 weeks.
3 weeks?
Shizuka
Member Since: 2/5/2014
Posts: 3,371
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Bentley
The thought has crossed my mind boo, considering this person hasn't known me but 3 weeks.
Oh then who cares, just be blunt.
EtherealCat
Member Since: 5/27/2016
Posts: 1,840
Post #8
Just be mean, its easier and I don't even think there is a nice way to say that.
DivaCup
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Posts: 7,796
Post #9
I am the queen of burning bridges. you gotta be honest. if they don't take you seriously, block them on every platform.
and honestly, if it gets to harrassment, get a protective order out on them. they are easy and quick to obtain
Bentley
Member Since: 8/29/2011
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Shizuka
Oh then who cares, just be blunt.
We live in the same neighborhood.
Kanji
Member Since: 5/13/2012
Posts: 21,615
Post #11
Just block him on Grindr. He'll get the message
If you don't want anything to do with them why would you care if you were mean
freakum.
Member Since: 1/13/2012
Posts: 3,393
Post #12
tell em boy bye
DancingShoes
Member Since: 4/6/2014
Posts: 6,438
Post #13
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Saskia
I am the queen of burning bridges. you gotta be honest. if they don't take you seriously, block them on every platform.
and honestly, if it gets to harrassment, get a protective order out on them. they are easy and quick to obtain
This.
KillingYourCareer
Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 68,548
Post #14
Do ANYTHING to seem despicable without meaning to. Destroy some personal possession he has, slap him in the face when he calls you nicknames and say it's a game you play with your brother, replace his shampoo with hair removal lotion...
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