Please don't report this thread, this is personal to me, as you may or may not know I have a rare chest deformity called Pectus carinatum, it only occurs in every 4 out of 1,000 males (I posted it on the 5 random facts about you thread), I hate it so much, it causes me so much pain especially if I'm sleeping on my side and especially if I'm running the pain is really bad, my doctor said to me that because I'm now an adult, I won't be a candidate for bracing as I'm too old, he had said that surgery was an option but my mum said that I wouldn't be getting it as they have to break my sternum while putting a metal bar in my chest and it's also two surgeries, so the thing is I am sick of having it and since I'm old enough should it be my decision to go for the surgery if I need it? It's also affecting my self confidence as well since it literally looks like a bow, other people have been a bit weirded out by me having this, one girl even asked if I was wearing padding when myself, my sister and her friends went out trick or treating one year

I also don't ever like getting changed in front of people as I'm scared of them asking why my chest is like this.
Does any other guy on ATRL have this?
