Well I didn't want this to be the topic of discussion, it was just the catalyst to my point. I appreciate you asking though.
She's been the same for the last 8 years, brain dead in the hospital. It was and is sometimes still hard for me to deal with, but I've gained a very important perspective from all of it: What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. My dad was not the greatest parent following the incident, so in many ways I sort of had to parent myself (and my younger brothers to a point). I feel like I've become an extremely responsible, self-sufficient individual from everything, and in the end its always best to try to take the positive out of a situation, no matter how grim it is... whatever tragic situation comes in my future I feel like I can handle better cause, not for nothing, I've already been through it all at the age of 21. The sky is the limit for me, and I wana keep it on that note.
It must be very hard for you.
