Let me start

* Being known as someones gay friend
* Being stereotyped constantly
* Straight guys thinking you are coming onto them

small number of gays, so less peens
not being able to express myself completely

I don't hate gay :kier:
But weird strangers people need to stay away from doing anal sex without condom

People seeing you as just gay and nothing else. I hate how people completely try to define you by it.

In the city where I'm from, I feel there is a whole different reason to hate being gay. That is, gay men are so ****ty. Taking guys home from the bar everynight, hooking up so often, etc. You really have to watch out who you hookup with.

Having to come out. Such a hassle, such potential awkwardness, it's just awful.

labelling us as walking AIDS

THIS

Probably having to think about how to walk, act, or talk especially in dangerous area of a city, this worries me sort of on the DL, but if I drew attention to myself in such a manner, I'd worry about getting hurt, not emotionally speaking either

The only time I've ever disliked my gayness is when I see a cute boy, I want to talk to him but then automatically I have to stop and think "wait he might be straight, better not make a move, but what if he is gay? Worth the shot, but what if he gets offended and punches me or hurts me "

I feel like the only way to meet a guy is online or someone who knows someone who knows someone.

Then sometimes they don't even want a relationship, just sexual things. Is it bad I want to be in a comited relationship

This so much.

I've liked peoples statuses on Facebook before for a "Like for a like" and they have given me "I like that you're gay"

It pisses me off.

!!!

Exactly, you have to know they are gay in order to even have something going on. And there is hardly any selection (where I am from anyway).

The stereotype.
The awkwardness around straight people
The assuming guys.

This so much, I went out with a friend of mine who happens to be straight and a guy, just a casual lunch. First thing he says "I hope no one thinks we're a couple"

Not knowing if guys I like are gay or straight
And being stereotyped. I'm bi, so I interact with straight guys pretty naturally but...

This so much

Them always asking me if they look attractive enough

I tell them to show a lil more skin

-Coming out. Straight kids don't have to do it, and its hard to do so, as you don't know if you'll be accepted or not. It's even harder when its family.

-Not being able to hold my boyfriends hand without someone making a big deal out of it/being stared at. I try not to let it bother me, but after a while its like "mind your own business."

-The sterotype.

It sucks when they get comfortable with you though and they undress and you're just standing there like "can I have a touch"

The stereo-type that anyone who's gay likes anyone else that is. HELL NO. The sloppiness of gays in my city