So I started doing the whole online dating thing with sites such as Tinder, Match, etc and sometimes I see "masculine only" and I think nothing bad of it but sometimes I see gays complain about it and call them out for discriminating.
But I guess my question is why is it offensive? Should gays in general be "obligated" to date non masculine? To avoid being called out.
Is a dating preference a form of discrimination?
My other question is should masculinity or femininity be asked/said before meeting up? I asked because I do feel there are various levels of femininity (not sure if that makes sense)
For the record I'm pro fem I'm just curious as to why a preference of masculinity is a issue in our community and if it should asked/said before a online meet up?