Have you ever had a straight crush who made you so unbelievably frustrated?

I've had a couple, but one especially comes to mind. This is gonna be a long one, so grab a popcorn and get comfortable sistrens.

My freshman year of college (I'm a junior now), I met a guy on my floor who was so hot and soooo nice. I didn't have many friends, so I really appreciated it the one day I was walking in the hall and he asked me if I wanted to come with him and his friends to the lounge to play air hockey.

After that, we would always see each in the bathroom (sometimes I would see him with his shirt off and I had to pretend to be collected while having a conversation with him when on the inside I was like ). Sometimes he would pass me in the hallway and he would say hi and then ruffle through my hair and I was like yes, yes, he's into me! The receipts are there!

One day it had been like a week since I had seen him so I went on a search for him, looking through the whole building (yeah I was a mess, but I would always see him randomly about so I figured I'd give it a shot). Anyway, I finally found him on the emergency exit staircase talking to someone on the phone. I asked him who he was talking to and he told me it was his GIRLFRIEND from back home.

I was crushed. I literally went back to my dorm room and just fell into a depressing slumber. I got over it though and we gradually became friends. Once we were doing homework together in the study lounge and he took my notebook and scribbled something down in it and gave it back to me. I looked at the notebook and it said "Are you okay? ". It was the cutest thing! I guess my face makes me look depressed sometimes (it literally is just my face), but it was still so sweet of him to ask.

I remember just thinking he was the perfect guy. He was friends with everyone (a lot of girls so I was like, mmmm hunty). He was involved in so many volunteer groups. He was just so considerate of everyone (one time a guy had too much to drink and he made sure he got back to his dorm okay ).

Anyway, one day he told me he wanted to have an adventure with me. I was like "BITCH, this is what I've been waiting for YAAAS!" We went on a hike, which was so nice, and at one point we had to cross a river so he actually offered to carry me across! I hung on to his back while he walked through the water, getting his shoes and socks all wet. Not only did I get to feel up his body, but it was the sweetest thing.

After that we went to eat somewhere - just the two of us. I was like "I don't care if he doesn't know it, THIS is my first date with my future husband!" He ended up talking to me about his high school crushes on girls and I was like, okay, this is not where I wanted the date to go.

Anyway, that ended and pretty soon the school year was coming to an end. One day he told me I could sleepover in his room whenever I wanted (he had set up a hammock that he said I could sleep on). I was like, alright, we're back on track.

Unfortunately, we ended up being really busy since we had finals and it never happened. Then the school year ended and we hung out the last day before our parents came to pick us up. We told each other our plans for the summer and talked about next year, etc. What he didn't know was that I was transferring to another school (it had nothing to do with him, it was just a better academic opportunity). I don't know why, but I just couldn't bring myself to tell him. We said goodbye, see you next year, and just left.

That was the last time I saw him.

I find it so weird because i RARELY crush on people. I find people attractive, but like that's it for me I also get severely disinterested in people i crush on after a few days

HOWEVER, I lowkey lowkey crushed on this guy who i just saw around my school idk anything about him but he was literally SOOO cute i died everytime i saw him. I just assumed he was straight but perhaps he wasn't. Not interested anymore, but it was fun to see him every once in a while and die

I don't know what it's like to crush on someone that ISN'T straight

My only straight crush was online. She was so hot (and even sent me nudes)

But she had a boyfriend. She said he was ok with it but would leave our convos on Twitter abruptly saying her bf was in the room. I liked her a lot but stopped talking to her soon after that lol. Never again. But I heard they got engaged

I love myself so i don't fall for straights that in know wont ever like me back

I just read your story (lazy ) and that was sooo cute find him on social media or something!! he could always be a good friend to have around.

I'm straight and masculine so I don't have this problem

You're story sis he could have been bi, I got vibes from the story that he liked you tbh, ugh I hate how things are sometimes

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your story is so cute

I've only had a crush on 3 people in my life, 2 of them were straight. All 3 times went into a disaster and we don't see each other anymore tho

I can't get into details because I have the memory span of a goldfish, I forgot many things in my life and also it makes me regret how I handled the situations very much

to keep it short, i kind of fell for a closeted bi guy who became my FWB back in freshman year.

i still regularly see him, but i just cut contact with him coz he had a girlfriend (he's trash lmao) and i felt really bad. there's that and also the fact that he gained a shitload of weight.

but yeah, i think he's slowly coming out now, at least as a bi. we lost contact for a year until he messaged me on grindr this year (he didnt have a face pic up so i assume he's still closeted) but yeah, he started posting pics of him with drag queens and regularly uses YAAASSS... straight up turning out to be a basic gay, but i'm honestly happy that he's finding himself and like, idk, being comfortable with his sexuality.

Omg the OP story is so bittersweet. He sounds so lovely - why does god curse us with nice attractive gay-accepting straight guys!

The only crush I had in high school was on a lesbian.

Is that what a reverse warholian experience is?

Woo the poor OP getting all those encounters and wishful thinking. I feel ya sis

I did the exact same thing.

My only story is a good friend in high school, we were just friends for months and all was well but one day we both hung out and stayed over at another friend's place. So the friend who's house it was stayed in his room, and me and the other one shared a bed in another room. Like nothing happened obviously (he was straight!) but we were close and it was a cold night so his body heat under the covers was amazing (though we weren't touching but you know) but anyway he just opened up to me, we talked about our hopes and dreams etc. I wasn't out then but he told me something like "You're a different kinda guy, but that's why you're cool and we're friends." It was the first time anyone had ever even alluded me being gay as anything but a nasty slur, so it really had me shook / emotional.

Then the next day we got up and got dressed and I just remember looking at him a new light, and I developed this ENORMOUS crush on him that in the end just ruined my life for the better part of two years, and he wound up with this chick I was friends with and my friendship with them both basically disintegrated cause it was too miserable to be around either.

Woo lord glad high school finished and I was able to move on from that mess.

Why was this actually me last year

I got my friend to dm the guy I saw all the time in the hallway, and she gaybaited him and he CAME OUT TO HER he talked to her a little bit and said "thanks for the inspiration" on coming out and then he tweeted a screenshot of the convo where she said he was cute and asked if his one male friend was his boyfriend he cropped out the part where he came out to her though I still don't know what his sexuality is, but I'm not going back to that school so