There's this girl in one of my classes who is so awkward it hurts. You say "hi" to her and she's all "oh, um, hi" and stratches her head.. And if you look at her she giggles nervously and says "what? You're making it awkward" and it's just so annoying
Sometimes, but then again, I am one. But I'm not anything as bad as how you described, I'm just really quiet but if you talk to me then I'll act normally, though I'll still be pretty nervous.
They annoy the **** out of me, but I am one, so I guess it's selfloathe.
Well if someone talks to me I act normal, it's just I don't really know what to say cause no matter how enthusiastic someone is to me I keep thinking they don't actually wanna talk to me so I'll keep my awnsers as short as possible.
I know it's annoying and that my thoughts are completely delusional but in that moment I can't help it.
Not everyone has as good social skills as you. For that girl, social situations probably causes an unnecessary increase in adrenaline which causes her mind to race, so it's pretty hard for conversations to occur natuarally when all that stuff is going on in your head. Then you realize your being awkward and the panicing increases. I'm sure she doesn't want to be like that and knowing that she is "being annoying" would probably make the anxiety even worse. Sorry she isn't good enough for your standards.
Well, first of all I would applaud her for even coming to school. That in itself shows growth, I used to be socially awkward, but today I'm extroverted. It just takes time, and such people may annoy you, but never tell them that, their confidence will take a knock. Keep it cute girls
Don't judge her for how she acts with you, she's probably insecure when it comes to her self-representation around others. Try to be more accommodating of her way of the world.
Not everyone has as good social skills as you. For that girl, social situations probably causes an unnecessary increase in adrenaline which causes her mind to race, so it's pretty hard for conversations to occur natuarally when all that stuff is going on in your head. Then you realize your being awkward and the panicing increases. I'm sure she doesn't want to be like that and knowing that she is "being annoying" would probably make the anxiety even worse. Sorry she isn't good enough for your standards.
I see where a lot of you are coming from saying that it's not her fault, and you're right, but this girl doesn't even shower (so she smells unpleasant) so she's barely helping her situation- that's what I find annoying :/
Y'all acting like they WANT to be socially awkward. And with judgemental people like you guys, it's a wonder why some will never grow out of their shells.
Not everyone has as good social skills as you. For that girl, social situations probably causes an unnecessary increase in adrenaline which causes her mind to race, so it's pretty hard for conversations to occur natuarally when all that stuff is going on in your head. Then you realize your being awkward and the panicing increases. I'm sure she doesn't want to be like that and knowing that she is "being annoying" would probably make the anxiety even worse. Sorry she isn't good enough for your standards.