You catch your significant other kissing someone else? Are there factors that would determine the break up? Say one isolated kiss that they come clean about vs a string of make out sessions that they lie about. Wanna hear your thoughts

He's still cheating so yes

BTW I'm saying this because I found out my bf kissed another guy (one time) and I'm trying to figure out whether I should get him to come clean and work things out or dump ha ass immediately. We live together so if we break up it'll be difficult

Regardless of the "excuse" they may have, I would not stay with someone who cheated on me. I hope you feel the same way, although it's your decision. It's up to you, though. If you want to know what I'd do, I'd break up with them in a second, without hesitation. Not worth the worrying and stress of staying with someone who would cheat.

If you really like him then I think you should give him another chance but if he does it again then you should definitely dump him.

Be a better judge of character next time!

Absolutely break up. I don't tolerate any of that. Whether they come clean or not trust would be gone in that relationship for me.

It's one thing that he kissed someone else. It's another that he kept it a secret from you.
Get him to confess. Listen to his alibis. Judge for yourself whether he's telling the truth.
Dump his ass if you smell ********

The thing is, this guy has a husband and I know they had been involved before when my bf was single but he was married. So I feel like this is already his second mess up and I'm kinda a fool to stay with him

Thanks for your sarcasm, that's exactly what I needed right now?

I agree. Best case scenario I could never trust him with anything ever again

I would find out who his husband is and tell him.

I've met them both before. I'm going to, at least we could both sympathize with each other. That could help our break ups/divorce

The first time was before we were together, and I thought it was just a mistake he regretted and was glad he was honest with me. They started hanging out again like two weeks ago and I know they genuinely were trying to be friends but something happened again. I was suspicious about it right away but I didn't know for sure what happened until today (I got desperate so I pretended to be my bf on snapchat and asked him about it and he told me everything). It's just a lot. I'm sure I'd be already gone if we didn't live together but that complicates it soo much. But I know what I need to do now. Anyways I'm flying home tonight and he's picking me up so I'll confront him in the car and we'll see what happens. I'll let you all know

Yes and I've done it.

yeah, my ex sent nudes to some guy online behind my back and going back to that was such a mistake lmao