She needs to understand that some people are really sensitive and they get hurt easily. She clearly doesn't care about that, and it's really sad to see. And why can't she share her story? A lot of awful things happens to trans people and no one ever talks about it. Honestly I think she's transphobic.
And why all the SJW hate? SJW's just want to make the world a better place. As a cis straight privileged white woman, thankfully I don't have to deal with these kinds of things, but I still want to help, because I can't even imagine what these people must be going through