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Originally posted by KareBear
People saying that they wouldn't like to see that or date someone like that. Do you think that has to do with some internalized homophobia/misogyny? I mean what's the problem of some guys being feminine?
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Not really. I mean like I said before, I love fem twinks as friends because they're pretty much always hilarious. But I couldn't date someone like that. Why? Because I'm gay. I'm really, really, really gay. I'm so gay that I love MEN. Manly men. I want a giant, muscular, 6'2", 120kg bodybuilder with a really deep voice who plays rugby on the weekends to pick me up and throw me around. That's how gay I am.
If you think about it, wanting a man like that is actually more gay than wanting an effeminate boy who's kind of girly. Lots of bi guys like feminine, thin, lean twinks/twunks. A true reverse Warholian experience.
And if you think about the bravery, confidence, courage and self-acceptance it takes for a guy to leave the house in a dress and makeup, while still presenting himself as a male...well, that's more courageous and brave than I'll ever be. So if you think about it, he's more masculine than guys who are considered masculine in the traditional sense. Another reverse Warholian experience.