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Discussion: Is this cheating?
Member Since: 11/6/2011
Posts: 4,246
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if you are in a relationship with a guy but make out with a female friend of yours just for fun... can you call that cheating?
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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No, cheating would be what Rihanna does to her fans.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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how would you feel if you saw your partner doing that?
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Nope, unless you are bi
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Member Since: 1/6/2014
Posts: 11,333
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I wouldn't consider it cheating per se, but a lack or respect to your significant other. If you want to try things "just for fun", try it with your partner, get an open relationship or be single, simple as that.
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Member Since: 11/6/2011
Posts: 4,246
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Originally posted by Teneo
I wouldn't consider it cheating per se, but a lack or respect to your significant other. If you want to try things "just for fun", try it with your partner, get an open relationship or be single, simple as that.
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But everybody likes to make out.
It's something I have done before the relationship even started, I also did it just for fun.
he kinda has problem with that.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 16,407
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Quote:
Originally posted by Teneo
I wouldn't consider it cheating per se, but a lack or respect to your significant other. If you want to try things "just for fun", try it with your partner, get an open relationship or be single, simple as that.
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i agree with this. to me it isnt cheating esp if youre gay since there is no physical or emotional want to be with another person, youre just having fun. but it is disrespectful if you know itd hurt your partner.
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Member Since: 1/6/2014
Posts: 11,333
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Originally posted by DR3ch
But everybody likes to make out.
It's something I have done before the relationship even started, I also did it just for fun.
he kinda has problem with that.
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If he has problems with that and doesn't like you doing it, then why are you doing it? Why are you in a relationship with him? You have to care about your partner. Everybody likes to make out, have sex, etc, but when you are in a relationship those things are supposed to be on agreement on both partners, not one of them seeking fun without thinking about the other's feelings. If you are happier doing this, end the relationship or talk with him. He will know what to do with your relationship status.
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Member Since: 11/6/2011
Posts: 4,246
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Originally posted by BudBud
i agree with this. to me it isnt cheating esp if youre gay since there is no physical or emotional want to be with another person, youre just having fun. but it is disrespectful if you know itd hurt your partner.
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but it is funny.
It also is very entertaining for people to watch
.... but my boring ass bf was standing there and almost started crying.... ****ing *****.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Quote:
Originally posted by Teneo
I wouldn't consider it cheating per se, but a lack or respect to your significant other. If you want to try things "just for fun", try it with your partner, get an open relationship or be single, simple as that.
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+1
agree with this
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Member Since: 11/6/2011
Posts: 4,246
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Quote:
Originally posted by Teneo
If he has problems with that and doesn't like you doing it, then why are you doing it? Why are you in a relationship with him? You have to care about your partner. Everybody likes to make out, have sex, etc, but when you are in a relationship those things are supposed to be on agreement on both partners, not one of them seeking fun without thinking about the other's feelings. If you are happier doing this, end the relationship or talk with him. He will know what to do with your relationship status.
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no, I really like him.
But imo he just should get over it.
We were at a "Party" it's normal to make out with friends at party's
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 9,481
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He should dump your inconsiderate ass. You sound very immature.
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Member Since: 3/7/2012
Posts: 2,113
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Cheating, no. Sleazy and disrespectful to your partner? Yes.
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Member Since: 11/25/2008
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Yes, since you are bi. And just messing around at parties is so high school.
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Member Since: 11/6/2011
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Originally posted by ItsJim
He should dumb your inconsiderate ass. You sound very immature.
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he wouldn't dump me. He's too weak for doing that.
But either way, I like him, he loves me
so he really should get over it.
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Member Since: 10/12/2002
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Originally posted by DR3ch
he wouldn't dump me. He's too weak for doing that.
But either way, I like him, he loves me
so he really should get over it.
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Sounds like a great relationship
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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I would personally dump you if you didn't apologize
You sound like a terrible person
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by DR3ch
he wouldn't dump me. He's too weak for doing that.
But either way, I like him, he loves me
so he really should get over it.
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you're really heartless hope he dumps your ass asap
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but it is funny.
It also is very entertaining for people to watch
.... but my boring ass bf was standing there and almost started crying.... ****ing *****.
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no, I really like him.
But imo he just should get over it.
We were at a "Party" it's normal to make out with friends at party's
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hope you end up without any partner since you don't even deserve one your bf is really too good for you to support this disgusting character with these awful thoughts no wonder some people will end up being very insecure when it comes to love when there are people like you
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 9/14/2010
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Yikes.
Post a selfie so we can all avoid you.
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Member Since: 1/6/2014
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Originally posted by DR3ch
but it is funny.
It also is very entertaining for people to watch
.... but my boring ass bf was standing there and almost started crying.... ****ing *****.
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He needs to leave you. And you need to grow up if and reconsiderate what your partner means to you. I would never provoke any harm to a person I love in order to provide entertainment. Check your priorities and re-evaluate your inconsiderate actions, because ch...
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