i've never tried online dating before. i was definitely desperate when i was single, but not THAT desperate. I usually just let people come into my life. my current bf is the first relationship i've had since my last one 2 years ago so yeah it's definitely hard finding someone in person
I met the guy im currently dating coincidentally one night in a regular old straight nightclub.. i was just dancing with friends and he came up to me out of nowhere.. and then we couldnt keep our hands off each other and had all the straights side eyeing the action
Other guys ive met at my job.. so yeah there are alternatives to those dating apps.. i feel like gays are finding it too easy to use grindr and arent trying hard enough to make connections irl first
That's what I'm currently trying to do. I kind of have to cause I have a bad relationship with social media and apps and I'm too shy and introverted for clubs and community events
But yeah, it hasn't been working out. Like, at all. Even when my gaydar goes off, I start second guessing things and overthinking, cause I'm also too scared of rejection