So lately a few of my friends have been settling down and having kids, pretty early to be honest, they are all around 22-24 and when I think about it that's the age my Mom had me and her Mom had her etc etc so I guess it's pretty normally. Now that I know I'll be getting married in the next year or so it has me thinking about it, I know I want kids but I'm curious about other people.
I hope nobody finds this intrusive but if you are gay and you want kids what is your take on the controversy around it, do you think there is anything in it? Would you adopt or find a surrogate and a donor egg? Have a female friend do it for you?
What age do you think is acceptable to have kids?
and I want 3 (boy, boy and girl) and have them with 2 or 3 years of difference 
maybe I've found the right man