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I've slept with 1,000 men so far... PLOT TWIST!
Crystal Waren
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I've slept with 1,000 men so far - and I don't care if people judge me
Crystal, who lives in Brighton, was born in a Somerset town. Her parents split up when she was five and she puts her chronic addiction down to witnessing the breakdown of their marriage.
Crystal lost her virginity at 15 with a school friend, and believes she became an addict straight away.
“I felt empowered after I lost my virginity,” she says. “I loved the feeling of being wanted so badly by the boy I lost it to.”
She was soon having sex with boys her age and bedding someone new every other month.
By the time she was 17 she had slept with 40 people. “I didn’t think anything of it at the time,” she says.“I thought all the girls in my village were experimenting, too.
“I didn’t know 40 men was more than most women sleep with in a lifetime. All I knew was that I felt good about myself when I was having sex.”
Crystal claims she has always practised safe sex. She isn’t able to have children but ensures she doesn’t contract any STIs.
Between 17 and 20, Crystal began going to local pubs and clubs where she had plenty of chances to fuel her addiction.
“I’d begin to feel hungry for sex,” she says. “I’d go on the prowl for men on my lunch breaks. If I didn’t manage to have sex I’d be unproductive all afternoon.
In her early 20s, Crystal assumed she simply had a high sex drive.
While she’s notched up more than 1,000 lovers, Crystal has managed to hold down relationships with some of the men she’s slept with. Her first came at 22 with Mark, then 19.
Inevitably they split and Crystal’s need for constant sex worsened.
“On a bad day I’d have sex with seven different guys in 24 hours, sometimes a few at a time.
Crystal moved to Brighton at 24 and met second boyfriend Dave, who was 21 when she was 26.
“Things were going great for the first year until I found out he’d cheated on me.
Crystal retaliated. Angry and needing to know that men still found her attractive, she slept with as many men as she could.
It continued for around seven years, during which time Crystal slept with around 400 more men.
As she hit 35, Crystal began to realise most of her friends were settling down, getting married and having families.
At 40, Crystal finally confronted her addiction.
“I know I’m a sex addict, but I can’t face getting professional help,” she says. “Sex is the only thing that makes me feel good about myself. I’m a member of online dating website CougarLife.com, which helps me find men who can keep up with my high sex drive.
Relate counsellor Denise Knowles says:
Sex addiction is recognised as a serious problem and help is available. It’s not impossible to give up, to get that balance, but you have to want to change.”
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 Interesting. I hope she got the help she needed. Sex addiction should be confronted like any other addiction, but I think it is often overlooked.
Edit: As brndksk pointed out, Crystal was actually born a man. 
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A woman who revealed she has slept with 1,000 men has made another startling confession - she used to be a man herself. Crystal Warren admits that there could be 'a lot of angry men out there' after they learn her secret.
I don't want any man I've ever been with to doubt his sexuality now because of this. They didn't know they were sleeping with somebody like me.'
She told the Sun : 'I no longer refer to myself as a post-op transsexual because I needed to put that label behind me to move on. I haven't come as far as I have to be reminded all the time.
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