Order these family members by their importance to you
Parents (Mom/Father)
Siblings (Sister/Brother)
Spouse/Partner
Children
If you don't have a partner nor any children (kii 99.9% of ATRL), then imagine how your order would be if you have both of them in your life. IF you can't think of a happily married life because you've decided to have a nun life then just order your current family members (you can include your grandparents)...