As a country, we're slowly but surely getting less homophobic, but it's pretty rife with it at the moment. We have people like Rick Santorum that have a serious chance to become President, and even the Democrat President is unsure what his stance on gay marriage is. Still, more states are starting to legalize gay marriage, so it's kind of a mixed bag.
As a state, Florida is terrible. We have a member of the Tea Party as our governor.