I have NO problem with other people saying N***a.The constant use of that term in Urban culture is bound to have people saying it no matter what.If blacks don't want asnyone else using it in this connotation.Simple,DON'T use the damn word yourself.
As for N***R
HELL NO!
The only way someone should get away with saying that word is if they are using it to describe past events/Historical Accounts.Otherwise,that word should be put in the trash can.
Others-
This might come off as Insensitive,but I can NOT take the term "Jig***oo" seriously at all.
LOL while we're on the subject of Minority affairs....
http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.php?t=192433
Let's talk about HBCUs