Well, I know from experience
plus all the
analysis that stems out of it, I think I've personally
come to the realization of the fact that bottoming is a state of mind over anything else.
This is for you inexperienced people, I know this is a forum full of eager teens and older virgins but it's fine, nothing wrong with that! This is why I'm writing this. I was talking to an inexperienced
FLOP about this issue and he laughed at me and I was triggered like never before
. You see, sex is one of my favorite topics, I'm really open, I give opinions, I read a lot of healthy, educational stuff and it's one of my biggest pleasures (hehe) so of course I had to preach.
Okay so,
NOTHING is meant to go up your ass, this is why it is tight shut when it's not doing what it's tasked to do, which is why I think anal sex is
Unnatural. I like to call anal sex
Physically Viable instead, which is a totally apt name for it; it forcefully opens up, receives whatever your demented ass likes to shove up there, you get your rocks off or whatever then it closes down, hoping for the torture to end. The bussy does have nerve endings, which is why it feels remotely good if you relax yourself a bit, but that's the key,
RELAXATION. I'm not talking about physical relaxation, I'm talking about the relaxation of the mind, which is where the key of pleasure is located when it comes to bottoming. This explains why you can fickle a penis for a second and it starts getting hard, it's meant to be open for stimulus, if you fickle the bussy the reaction of the body would be to
CLOSE UP.
You see, when you're alone with that ***** or whatever toy you're using, you're comfortable with yourself, you like what you feel, you know your body, you know you will have a good time, you're lubed up with lube, spit (hot), coconut oil
, hell even mayo or vegetable oil if you're poor. What matters it's the grand time you're having, and you are having it because you are mentally relaxed! Only you know what you're doing, no need to prepare yourself for others you dirty bitch. Which is WHY you need to fully know the person if you want to bottom/have a gay relationship with someone as a bottom, don't act desperate and don't choose a random gay to do it for you if you don't fully feel them. Trust is the most beautiful thing on Earth and it feels SO MUCH BETTA.Janet than that musty ***** under your mattress, but ONLY if you are in full synch with the other person, nothing like communication to spice up things in bed! This is why you see all these sad bottoms in **** films with a dick more shriveled up than the raisins I had this afternoon, they don't wanna be there, yes, they are gay, they like it up there, but there's no relaxation, so they wanna die.
The orgasm of a top is a bliss, but a vanilla bliss, whereas the orgasm of a bottom in full mental relaxation mode is the best thing you will ever experience in your entire life, coupled with the G spot, woo the slayage
. This is also for the tops who hate bottoming because how it feels, trying meeting someone you really like, you desperate *****. Now I wish I could speak about a bottoming only orgasm but those are really rare and I haven't experienced one yet, it's in my bucket list, right below visiting Ushuaia, Argentina.
I hope you cherish this piece of information I just gave you in your minds and think of me when you are bottoming with the love of your life for the first time
Alan.
Any sexual question feel free to message me, I promise they won't turn me on.