in year 7, it was about 2 school terms sooo, like ~4 months but it was one of the msn/myspace chat things where we only saw each other like once a month and were more comfortable texting/im'ing eachother than speaking in person, so i dont think it really counts
6ish years (but I'm practically an elder gay compared to some of you, at 23). A few friends of mine who are gay too, often ask why I am so "boring" - as I don't sleep around and I'm monogamous.
He was exposed on Facebook when someone (who he messed around with AND a former "friend" of mine) uploaded a video of him at a sex party doing things. He had no choice but to come clean.