I guess theres an idea that one has in their head of who they're going to be with and a lot of the time they have the same skin colour as you have yourself or as the people who you surround yourself with/grew up with because its what you know. I don't think that any one person can truly say they aren't attracted to a certain race because thats a whole lot of people and you have not met or seen every single one of those people.
I guess theres an idea that one has in their head of who they're going to be with and a lot of the time they have the same skin colour as you have yourself or as the people who you surround yourself with/grew up with because its what you know. I don't think that any one person can truly say they aren't attracted to a certain race because thats a whole lot of people and you have not met or seen every single one of those people.
So what am I the exception? I'm white but I see myself with a black guy
I get some people have a preference but these chav white girls only interested in having a mixed race baby, or trying to insinuate that someone like Lil Wayne is hot because he's black...its wrong, in no context could he be hot. I don't know about anywhere else though but in the UK fat white girls and black guys seem to be attracted to each other and coupled up all the time.
I like guys who are different enough than me regardless of their color. I feel like I am having sex with myself otherwise. It's a turn off. I suspect part of it is the media over obsessing about white men and demonizing non-white men in one form or another is part of the issue.
Black guys = players, broke, lazy, criminals, diseased (rarely is a black person in gay media unless there is a tie in to HIV awareness), top only, bad attitude, dumb
Asian guys = bottoms, small pepe, annoyingly desperate, geeky
Hispanic guys = illegal, broke, still not white but usually considered an acceptable alternative to a white guy
The further away from white you go the more negative stereotypes exist for you and people are conditioned to think these things based on news reporting, movies, music and media in the most powerful country on earth and that has an effect on people whether or not they acknowledge it.
I too hate it when people come at me with I'm only attracted to black guys like I should be thrilled that someone who isn't black is only attracted to black guys.
It depends on why. If you're not attracted to them because they're black then that says a lot. But preferences are preferences. I mean, it's a wrong for a white person to only be attracted to black people? It's all about choice of preference and why.
Although I don't understand it. I'm attracted to ALL races and don't get why being a certain race would make someone unattractive. Lord, if I could have one of each I would.