To the girls and guys out there, would you date another girl or guy if they had a child? For instance, if they were straight or they are bi, and has had a child with someone from a previous relationship, would you settle down with them? State your answer, and state why or why not please.
Oh...and state your answer.
Well, I want kids but I want them after being with a guy for a very long time. Most likely after we get married. I'm not here for extra baggage. Sorry.
It really depends. If he was like my dream man & was an excellent father then yeah, I'd have no issues with it. Bonus points if he'd be willing to have another with me.
If he was a crap dad that barely spent time with his child then no. I don't want to be with someone that feels obliged to be a part of his child's life or anything like that. It would just be a hindrance and would annoy me.
I'm not here for people who were in previous relationships of that seriousness. You can guarantee that the other person will still be in their life. Or, if they've passed on, they'll still be "the one".
And I don't even want kids of my own, let alone someone else's.
A girl with kids, no. A guy with kids, maybe. As long as the kid/s didn't live with us full time and I didn't have to take care of them myself or feel obliged to become some sort of step mother. I am not good with kids in any capacity and they make me feel really uncomfortable. If he wants to go be a dad on his own time away from me and keep that part of his life separate I'd try it.
It really depends. If he was like my dream man & was an excellent father then yeah, I'd have no issues with it. Bonus points if he'd be willing to have another with me.
If he was a crap dad that barely spent time with his child then no. I don't want to be with someone that feels obliged to be a part of his child's life or anything like that. It would just be a hindrance and would annoy me.
the guy that I'm majorly crushing on is bi and has a baby on the way. He is so fine to me and soon he will be a DILF. but he's not really looking to date someone because he has a kid on the way.
