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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 5/21/2009
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Originally posted by Lily Gaga
Yeah...I'm HIV positive since May, 2008. If you got questions or want to share thoughts, feel free to PM me.
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I'm sorry to hear that. I pray that you will stay well.
Anyways, I like threads like these. Aside from all the stan wars and facades, we're all just average people dealing with everyday issues.
I mean, I've had alot of people say things to me that hurt me growing up, but I don't think I've ever been told anything extremely bad. One thing that bothered me for awhile was back in 8th grade when this girl told me I had no personality. That might seem meaningless, but back then I was at a new school and had alot of trouble fitting in. At my old school everyone acted their age, but at this new school everyone seemed like 5 years ahead of me. I was always the youngest in my classes anyways. But I don't know, when she said that, it really hurt me because it confirmed what I was already thinking of myself.
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Member Since: 3/18/2008
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Originally posted by Lily Gaga
I hate religion, because of the people who take It too serious or handle It the wrong way....but in hard times I found myself praying on the floor...I said: "God, we both know that I don't believe in you. And we both know that I'm not the best person you created...but I need you now. Show me, that I'm wrong and that you're out there...please help me and show me the right way."
You know Gui...we all go through life, like a karate kid.
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Yeah i understand, we all need something stronger than us to hold on to sometimes. You're an amazing person Denis, from the short and far conection that we had i can truly say that. I look up to you so much.
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Member Since: 2/2/2009
Posts: 20,174
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Originally posted by Gui Blackout
Yeah i understand, we all need something stronger than us to hold on to sometimes. You're an amazing person Denis, from the short and far conection that we had i can truly say that. I look up to you so much.
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Huge words...wow. Thank you, honey :heart:
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Member Since: 3/6/2011
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The most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to me was that I deserved to die in a car accident instead of my mother. I got over it though because I actually agreed.
The most hurtful thing I anyone has ever done to me was ..probably when my ex-boyfriend and his friends through change at me while I was walking home from school. (they told everyone I gave blowjobs for money)
They don't do it anymore though. I learned to stand up to my bullies.
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Member Since: 5/15/2010
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My parents found out I was gay in the worst way...
I have a good relationship with them but they cannot accept that I'm gay, my mother cries, sometimes my father doesn't want to talk, my brothers seem distant at times. I'm still in therapies and going to the psychologist. I have to turn straight no matter what.
It doesn't help I was bullied by these homophobes (Gosh everyone was homophobic in my school, the girls were more homophobic than the boys!!!) just because I was really sensitive, even my friends were homophobic and called me *** (How I hate this word ) all the ****ing time, I finished school 4 years ago and I have reunited with them several times and but it's something you just cannot forget and I want to.
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Member Since: 3/5/2011
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Originally posted by Beatz
My parents found out I was gay in the worst way...
I have a good relationship with them but they cannot accept that I'm gay, my mother cries, sometimes my father doesn't want to talk, my brothers seem distant at times. I'm still in therapies and going to the psychologist. I have to turn straight no matter what.
It doesn't help I was bullied by these homophobes (Gosh everyone was homophobic in my school, the girls were more homophobic than the boys!!!) just because I was really sensitive, even my friends were homophobic and called me *** (How I hate this word ) all the ****ing time, I finished school 4 years ago and I have reunited with them several times and but it's something you just cannot forget and I want to.
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You'll only mess up your life. You'll never be happy unless you are honest to yourself. Denying who you are will make you miserable. So don't change. In this situation you didn't do anything wrong. Your parents and friends should change, not you.
I will never understand the parents who give a hard time to their kids instead of supporting them. For me, this kind of people don't deserve to have kids.
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Member Since: 8/23/2010
Posts: 16,089
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Originally posted by Beatz
My parents found out I was gay in the worst way...
I have a good relationship with them but they cannot accept that I'm gay, my mother cries, sometimes my father doesn't want to talk, my brothers seem distant at times. I'm still in therapies and going to the psychologist. I have to turn straight no matter what.
It doesn't help I was bullied by these homophobes (Gosh everyone was homophobic in my school, the girls were more homophobic than the boys!!!) just because I was really sensitive, even my friends were homophobic and called me *** (How I hate this word ) all the ****ing time, I finished school 4 years ago and I have reunited with them several times and but it's something you just cannot forget and I want to.
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This whole post made me so mad. i wish I knew you and walk you at school every morning.
And please don't try to be straight it is not who you are, learning to love and accept who we are is a really long and hard journey, it will take you time but you're going to feel happier at the end. Your family and friends have to learn to love you as a whole if they can't then that's their loss and that means they are to coward to love you as you deserves to be.
Btw where do you live?
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Member Since: 3/16/2011
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No one has really hurt me in real life but i would love it if someone i dont care about tries it
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Member Since: 5/21/2009
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I used to be called ugly alot growing up, I was ridiculously scrawny, my head was disproportionate to my body, and I just wasn't exactly the most confident kid around. 8th grade was the WORST. I don't know what the hell happened that year, I was at a new school and I became more conscious than a chick. Like I used to cry in the bathroom stall over stupid things people would say to me. It's good I'm older now and can look back and realize how harmless half of the things said to me were. High school was much better for me and made some great relationships and grew into my looks. I just have a whole new perspective now because my mother always stuck by me. I love that woman to death.
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Member Since: 12/28/2010
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Originally posted by featheralley
When I was younger I would always be called gay/******/etc. I would always defend it (still closet), but they would still continue calling me it. Now, I'm an adult (first year in college) and people still call me it.. But I ignore it. But because I keep ignoring it.. It actually got worse, because now my friends are suspecting that I'm gay I guess it's a lose/lose situation.
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the school that I went to always picked at gay people, I just ignored it, but it bother me a couple of times
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Member Since: 7/10/2010
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I got called alot of names when i was growing up got made fun of and sumtimes i sat at the lunch room table by myself really had no friends and nobody to talk to short and skinny and didnt play sports mad it much worse. I look at it now and it still hurts but i kind of laugh at it now as seeing half the people that made fun of me are either in jail or have alot of kids. I grow into my looks also and feel much better about myself
I also channeled my hurt pain and angry into confidence
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Member Since: 6/25/2010
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"You're just a nobody, you act like a celebrity, which sadly is not going to happen".
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Member Since: 10/26/2010
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Originally posted by omgitsralph
"You're just a nobody, you act like a celebrity, which sadly is not going to happen".
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I hope you snatched their asses right up.
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Member Since: 6/25/2010
Posts: 9,650
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Originally posted by Knix
I hope you snatched their asses right up.
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They're just that pressed of the fact that I have professional cameras taking pictures of me.
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