LOL I would take as a compliement sis. Most of them r very messy but u seem very sweet and down to earth which is prob why they don't like/envy u. Take pride in it sis. Now back on topic I also wanna say that I also look for personality in a girl. I wanna see if she is shy, outgoing and what her control level is. A healthy relationship to me means equal control and I ain't havin her run my life otherwise I'm out. I want to be able to hang wit friends as does she when we want and then at times she wanna be my bitch and I'll wanna be hers esp during sex.
1. Face. Obvious, yeah. I want it all. I want eyes. I want a good smile. Big noses can still be attractive. Smooth, clear skin is sometimes essential. Facial hair optional. Unfortunately, chinstraps turn me on.
2. Legs. You better be filling out those pants with thick thighs and a nice bum. If you're skinny, wear skinny jeans. I think they're sexy.
3. Hair. For some reason I don't care about it as much or group it with "face." I think if you can work a boring/bad haircut, you can work for me.
4. Style. Being in Paris this week has spoiled me--everyone dresses beautifully, all the time. I don't care what you're going for as long as you look good. Hipster, homothug, indie, glam, whatever. I won't notice you if you're wearing that Burger King crown and Adidas gym shorts. (Well, I might notice you if you're not wearing anything in between.)
Not here for weave.. All though some girls can pull it off, I prefer a woman with real hair that's long.
Hygiene, Pretty Smile (including nice teeth), and of course BEAUTY.
I took a class in college and we learned that Woman naturally look at a mans Face before anything. You might not think it's the most important thing, but genetically that is what you will notice first.
A man notices the figure first.
We do these things unconsciously, even if we think we notice something else first, it's isn't true.