Is it just you or is he just an exhibitionist?

Maybe. We all find ways to not commit to relationships we're afraid to commit to - maybe this is your way.

Let it go and whatever happens, happens.

I need to see a pic of him to evaluate if what you are aiming for is worth it.

I don't know how I really got away with it. I really don't.
Maybe they did think it was a joke.

I am not feminine. And nobody knows that I'm out except for you guys.

You have no idea what this means to me. You all have embraced this thread for what I wanted it to be. A place to discuss something and get help when needed. Not an RT 2.0, a place to be utterly serious. So, thank you.

Bring it back to sex then

which is my specialty.

Agreed.

We can talk about both bitch.

Touch yourself.

He's obviously really insecure about something... Play him out sis!

Sis, y'all making me nervous!!

Eh, you're right. But it relates closely enough and having so many good conversations that I'll allow it.

Khlovess what do u prefer.... the finger or the inanimate objetcs?

There's only one shower that will show me everything. I cannot see all of the other showers....

ashu was very sage when he said that's just how you feel today. It might be MEANINGLESS to you five years from now. Just don't focus on it now--see where the relationship takes you!
And yet, it's still not that easy. You can't just let go of something like wanting to settle with a woman and have kids. But I don't think it's something you can't handle. You'll probably stay with your guy and you'll be happy.

And you have no idea how relatable your situation is. i shed a tear.

Are other showers empty or is that his usual spot he always goes?

I don't feel like re-reading all the pages, so whats the real dilemma BoBo?